Hope is what you do when have idea what you are doing.
I dunno. Isn't that culture one where getting in the family is the best option? Maybe you should be hitting church or something?
You know, do something, anything, just not all once, and with some tact, and maintain your sense of protector and provider of the way, or something.
I'll develop love or I won't. Their must be some force that binds us together, a relationship, and within the confines of that relationship love must develop. I cannot be certain that it will, and I really don't mind leaving a girl. I don't care about the emotions of other people Unless I love them, and that love is bound by my dependence on their love In order to appease my emotion, and in turn they are dependent upon my love.
LMAO dude you're such a joke. I just went through the thread where you were praising asceticism, and now you sound like a hound in heat. The hypocrisy is that you act all haughty intellectual and above the superficiality of regular peeps, yet what has you excited is that girl's looks and how you want to nail her. Ever thought why you don't look for rejected ugly girls? I bet you'd find at least a few interested in you and your intellectualism. You're just like everyone else, pal, guilty of the same thing. Get off your high horse and stop looking down on peeps doing and having the same stuff you WISH you could do or have.
I think I know where your depression comes from: lack of honesty with yourself. Your thoughts are contradictory to your own self and way of being. There is an internal conflict between what you preach and who you are. Grow some balls, make an honest evaluation of what your real values are, accept yourself the way you are and start working for betterment in a realistic manner. Holding yourself to high standards and falling short of them makes you bitter and frustrated. You're not as smart, morally perfect or right about stuff as you want to be, as you sometimes delude yourself to be. Getting off that high horse should do wonders to your mental health pal.
Also, did the other guy ask you to back off and you agreed? If not, the girl is fair game. If anything, you should get some balls and inform him as soon as possible you're interested in the girl. A lot of men back down just from that. If he doesn't, then he can't say you didn't give him a fair warning right?
At last! I've been in college for a very long time, surrounded by beautiful women... Especially of Arabic decent. They are very nice, and I like the fact they wear Hijabs as well. But unfortunately I've not had any chance with them, which sucks because I'm currently sitting opposite of one of the most beautiful women in this college. Just wow. Not only her, but her friends who are also very good looking... These hot girls are everywhere yet I've had no relationship. I've not had any real human connection for years, it's always barren and depressing... I always lose confidence and it's often times a bad experience to speak to anybody. Anyway, a czeckslovakian girl, not as hot as her sister who's a 10/10 but she's like 7-8/10. I'd still hit it, she seems nice and somewhat relatable. She complimented me saying I have beautiful blue eyes, I was shocked... Wow, I was overcome with a feeling of warmness. I would very much like her, an Eastern bloc princess.
BUT, I'm currently sitting opposite some guy that is okay, I have no issue with him except the fact he likes her. I want her, but I also don't want him to be upset because he seems like a cool guy... What do? Fuck him, I'm taking her... He can go suck a dick and die of whatever disease he contracts from doing So.
by JackC 4czeckslovakian
First off, it's called Czechoslovakia (well, was called while it lasted - it's back to Czech Republic and Slovakia since, like, two decades by now - the two countries had not much to do with each other historically, Slovakia being part of Hungary.)
'Eastern bloc' - currently indeed, due to decades of communist oppression. Until past WW2 Czech was very much on par with the best of the Western civilization, akin to Belgium, Holland and possibly even ahead of parts of Germany. Historically / culturally Czech is as "western" as it gets.
(No, i'm not Czech - but i wish i was.)