It's good you shared this, maybe those loners didn't have this outlet? have you thought those people you see as "normal" are also pretending? they could also have morbid thoughts or dislike their peers but have to pretend, maybe not as much as socios, but we all do to some degree, what would make you "happy"?
After a incident earlier this week I wrote down this rant to calm myself and to read over in the near future to better understand my depressed mindset with a clear head. Figured it was worth sharing here. This is what I wrote down:
"At times I get tired of wearing this fucking disguise. Everyday I can feel the stressors of life inching through the wall of tolerance I've set up. The little things like giving a fuck about their opinion, being expected to return greetings, holding back my tongue, realizing that my views aren't accepted or just being fucking forced to be around them amount to an unwanted pressure on me. I've spent a good deal of my life trying to relieve myself of this stress, meanwhile they're living their lives unaware of the blight they're inflicting on a daily basis. It's moments like this that I start to emphasize with some of the lone wolf shooters I see on the news, I know their wall wasn't strong enough. You look at the words used to describe these individuals and you see loner, outcast, odd, anti-social as if they had a fucking choice. Of course they see these incidents as attacks on the innocent when in reality it's nothing more than a retaliation for a life full of rejection and ridicule of one's nature. At a time I could excuse them and chalk it up to innocent incompetence, but I'm finding that harder and harder to do as time passes. it's left me bitter and marked a deep seated hatred of society. Sounds all to typical right? Maybe my walls are getting thin?"
I didn't read your depressed utterings, sorry dude, but I rarely do tbh but my guess is that most "sociopaths" (lol), around here, are just like yourself...messed up, lonely outcasts who just need someone to love them. But in actual fact, love must be intrinsic, it must come from within, if people are to to fall in love with you. How can you possibly expect someone to fall in love with something that so clearly hates itself?
A lot of the isolation is simply what they believe to be the case, giving up instead of continuing to try when in all actuality it is not that hard to find others to socialize with. The answer to fixing them is to have them not corner themselves with their own thoughts, as those types tend to be about as critical towards themselves as those around them if not more so. Even strong feelings of injustice can be quelled by teaching them how to stop holding it all in, and the confidence that follows that tends to make it easier to not be alone.
There's entire groups of "unpopular" types, and even if people like that are not in the area an internet connection can supplement until that can become the case. I was friends with a few "I want to shoot everyone/burn this whole place down" types, they generally just need an outlet. The loathing remains, but it at least becomes more lethargic. The only cases I've seen where a person is beyond help is if it's coupled with a medication imbalance, or those who are so sucked into delusion that it was a matter of time from the beginning anyway.
I'd argue the problem roots from excessive bottling being shaken up leading to an explosive reaction. Even the ones who believe they want to be alone more often than not won't turn away people who give them a release. With work they can learn to handle themselves in that time.