Any advice on how to help my girlfriend understand how people like us operate? I compulsively manipulate her and hurt her because its so easy too even though she is aware of what i am. She is still in love with me even though she knows ill never love her the way she understands love to be. I want to stay in the relationship but i don't want to keep walking all over her.
i basically beat my ex at his own game and on top of that i'm completely unpredictable because i react based on my emotions and he reacts based on logic and he hates me so much he wants to kill me so...probably not the best idea sociopaths are too obsessed with winning to be in a relationship like that
I agree with that but she isn't scared of me so i cant help but be drawn to her. It's too intriguing for me to stay away but that intrigue leads to me pushing her buttons and seeing how far i can push her. Does anybody have an opinion on two sociopaths dating? I can see how it would work but it could easily blow up.
Don't forget the histrionic girls.
Consistent drama and heaps of repressed laughter.
Either way, the witches and the sorceresses are the natural pairing choice for the wizardly type.
The warrior types are better off getting into a relationship with 'normies' (allows them that overpowering feeling of domination as opposed to the more competitive nature of the 'magical/artistic' relationships).
Either way, challenge is the key to not becoming bored within a relationship.
Obviously I'm oversimplifying here, but these are generalities that operate well enough.
P.S.
Abuse in a relationship is not a matter of consensuality. If you feel the need to abuse another person, or be abused by them, then you have not sacrificed and shared in the right way.
I don't know much about love, but I definitely know what it isn't.