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My breakups tend to be done in a fashion that promotes a "Friends with Benefits" relationship. It pays to remain friends with your exes, especially if you're picky and hard to please. 

"7. Speak clearly. You are an adult, talking to a women, mentaly - basically a child."

End it
End your relationship

I am going to assume that you get the jest of what constitutes a gentle breakup line. Good. Moving on. Now incorporate these wise tactics into your own breakup message. You should find some measure of comfort in rendering an unpleasant, awkward measure in a gentle manner and in knowing that you have softened the blow of an unwelcome message. Not because you care about her, but because you care about your reputation.

Obey these breakup rules to get away unscathed:
1. Maintain control and stay focused.
2. Act mature.
3. Be gentle, considerate, and kind.
4. Don't go for honesty.
5. Do not be drawn into an argument.
6. Stay calm, cool, and collected.
7. Speak clearly. You are an adult, talking to a women, mentaly - basically a child.
8. Stay out of the hazardous defensive zone.
9. Avoid playing games. Play Your game.
10. Treat your partner the way you wish her to speak of you to others.
11. Don’t leave important things unsaid.
12. End things in a civil and adult manner.

Now, this can be done in many ways. Let me walk you through it.

Heart to Heart
The Heart to Heart is an honest, verbal, no-bull breakup. It is conducted in a private, quiet atmosphere where no one will be embarrassed by a show of emotion. It should be done solemnly, tenderly, sensitively, and clearly. If you're not an alpha you should think twice.

The Long-Distance Directive
Distance dictates a dissolution of the relationship without being face to face. We're not talking emails here, but at least a phone call. Man up. It's interpreted as a personal and honest, spoken breakup. It is easier to be more evasive via long-distance, which is good if you don't have a pokerface but at least control your voice. If you lack either, you have to resort to email bro.

The Last Hurrah
The Last Hurrah is a fun way to part. It can even be upbeat if man and woman are in agreement that each should go their separate ways. But it could also be done wihtout the other knowing. The important thing is to plan greatness, to finish with a grand exit.

The Public Maneuver 
This is anything but private. Notification of a breakup could be given in front of friends, family, or coworkers. This breakup style often involves the notification that reparations or repayment of loans are due. It could also serve as public notice that one party is expected to vacate a shared residence. Can be most effective.

The Business Prototype
This was is a very proper, unemotional, businesslike discussion that is handled maturely and explicitly face to face. The demise of the relationship calls for careful, logical planning. Terms of the breakup and potential problems are arbitrated practically and fairly. The object is to ward off future damage to either party and keep emotions in check.

The Surprise Attack
It comes out of the blue, generally after discovery of a case of infidelity and gross deception. It is swift, certain, short, and to the point. If it is accompanied with a poisoned arrow, there is no opportunity for the partner getting dumped to rebut. So much potential.

I encourage covert plots. But remember to make the break up look like it’s end with integrity, honesty, and respect from the outside. Help your fellow man with conctrete ideas, your experience and examples of how this can be done.