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by MrDelta

Obviously you love to be hated reaper...

No, I don't love to be hated at all and I'm not sure why you would even think that.

I don't care to be liked either. Maybe that's why you think I love to be hated?

by MrDelta

Are you telling me you don't love the negative or notorious attention you get from people on this forum?

No. Most of the time I just find it boring and repetitive. That's not to say I don't enjoy a good argument at times. I do, especially if it's an aggressive one. I enjoy confrontation.

I can admit that I like attention occasionally. Sometimes I love being the center of attention, but most times I would prefer it be positive than negative attention. I'd rather be admired than hated. Though, like I mentioned before, I don't mind negative attention if I'm enjoying a good verbal fight in the process.

Okay. Now at any point in your life did you find yourself confusing hate as some sort of sign of love? Think back...

I don't know much about love, but I do know what hate is and it sure as shit ain't love.

Obviously you love to be hated reaper...

Me... I don't enjoy pain... I'm probably more of your classical libertarian...

You love being the submissive one, I guess then. You know if we are talking about BSDM.

Oh whatever... It's none of my business trying to do a hack psychoanalysis on you...

Are you telling me you don't love the negative or notorious attention you get from people on this forum?

Okay. Now at any point in your life did you find yourself confusing hate as some sort of sign of love? Think back...

If it helps, I'm a paranoid type and normally I confuse love as some form or hatred, or ill will, or negative controlling device.

by MrDelta

You love being the submissive one, I guess then. You know if we are talking about BSDM.

 Oh no, lol, I'm dominant.

That first sentence you typed is the funniest most hysterical thing I have read all day. ^

I have only done it with one person. He was into it, I was into him.

by Reaper

If you have experience in BDSM:

Are you Dominant or submissive?

Have you ever tried the opposite role just to see what it's like? If yes, tell us your experience. Did you enjoy it?

What are some of the things you've done and would like to do in the future involving BDSM?

Any interesting stories to tell relating to your BDSM experiences?

How do you feel about the use of safe words. Do you think a safe word is necessary?

Ever been in a committed relationship with someone you have done, or still do, BDSM with? If yes, how does it affect your relationship with each other. Does it ever impact your relationship in a negative way?

I'm Dominant.

Yes, I tried being submissive once just to experiment. Though I wasn't really in the submissive role considering I was the one telling him what to do.

I met a guy off the net in person and told him I wanted us to do some rape-play. It wasn't really like rape at all though. It was more like hard sex. The sex was okay, but then I told him to put a knife to my neck and that got me excited a bit. I think what actually excited me was the risk involved, more so than him actually holding the knife to my neck. I barely knew the guy.

Anyway, the situation was interesting, but I don't think I could ever be in a situation where I'd let someone have complete control over me. I like to be the one in control and although it was interesting telling someone else what to do to me, it turns me on more to be the one on top holding the knife to their neck.

I'm into all kinds of things; knife-play, blood-play, gun-play, breath-play, burning and whipping. Consensual kidnapping is something I have a strong interest in as well. What makes that exciting is the risk involved. Even though it's consensual, the more realistic it looks, the better.

I used to chat to a masochistic guy who agreed to be kidnapped, brought to a secluded area where I could hurt him at my own leisure, and then leave him there tied up naked over-night. It didn't happen though because he started to get worried I was going to kill him, so he backed out.

I personally don't agree with the use of safe words because I believe it gives the submissive some control. Part of the reason I like dominating them is to have control over them. I'm the one who says when enough is enough, not them.

I've never done BDSM with any guys I've dated because they weren't really into that. I did try knife-play with one guy, but I got him by surprise and he kinda freaked out over it, lol.

A question for everyone:

There seems to be some stigma against those who enjoy BDSM. So, I'm curious. How do you feel about BDSM in general and those who enjoy it?

I don't understand why some people have an issue with it. BDSM is just a way to enhance the sexual experience between two consenting adults.

I have this thing where I want a chick preferably to wrap her entire head in tape. 

Any BDSM acts i like are purely because I find them funny like the tape thing or fascinating like drowning. If someone wrapped thir entire head in tape for me I would probably be dying of laughter. Anything done with BDSM i would just prefer to sit in a comfy chair and watch someone give me a show...doesn't get me sexually aroused or anything

whoever does BDSM is none of my business, but i think some of the people that do it have some control issues