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My interest in this subject has nothing to do with my intimate life.

I am interested in psychology, disorders, and human behavior. They are now taking away the gender bias when trying to diagnose, here, in the 21st century. In doing so, they find that many males who should be diagnosed as borderline, are instead  diagnosed as ASPD. And I'm willing to bet some of the men who come here thinking they are sociopaths, are really borderline- as with the women who come here seeking help bbecause they think they're being stalked by a psychopath.

True on the tk part lol

So just meet up with her when you feel like fucking her (if you're not already doing that). When she really starts to piss you off... well, I've obviously lost my ability to get rid of borderlines, so perhaps I'm not the right person to be giving you advice on how to get rid of her.

At least she's hot though.

by Helena

Fascinating, well-written stuff, Silk.

...and now to attempt to turn this thread into something all about my narcissistic self!

I seem to attract two types of people: the mother figure and the borderline. For those of you who've read "The Mask of Sanity" you'll know exactly what I'm talking about. The mother figures are fun. The borderlines are not.

As you've said, Silk, the BPD tends to alternate between idealisation and devaluation. Well, I had the misfortune of encountering a borderline on the train a year and a half ago. I should've given her a fake name, but I didn't. My bad. She found me on Facebook and added me. That's okay - I've got 5,000 friends on FB, and MOST of them are stalkers.

But then this girl moved into the house next door to mine.

I still thought that that was okay. Ignore her, bore her, abuse her, and soon enough, she'd start screeching about how horrible I am as a person and would then move on to someone else.

Nooooooooooo.

Over the past year I've stolen $4,500 from her. I've stolen drugs from her house. I "borrow" money that I never return. Yet, no devaluation.

WHY THE FUCK NOT?! I mean, what I am doing wrong here? I've dealt with borderlines in the past and it's never been this difficult to get rid of one!

 Is this the neighbor that tried to kill herself?

Did you ever try to talk to her and tell her honestly and bluntly that you don't want to have anything to do with her? Being honest and straightforward about it could solve your problem. Try it, you have nothing to lose. Make sure she understands you really mean it.

there you go. i had a clinger, even her controlling boyfriend couldn't break us apart when he gave her an ultimatum. then she started irritating the fuck out of me, so i ignored her for about a month, sent her blunt msgs and she never seemed to forgive me for that. we tried to make it work again but it wasn't the same. </3

I agree with your post and I find it very interesting and true. It has an impact on me because of my personal relationships with a male borderline and being a female borderline with a twist of sociopathy, it's been an exciting and emotional journey full of ups, downs and games. I will be writing about it soon and would encourage you and your readers to visit, read, post, comment, reply and provide feedback and their own perspectives and stories.

http://femaleborderlinesociopath.blogspot.ca/

https://femaleborderlinesociopath.wordpress.com/

by Edvard

 

by Helena

Fascinating, well-written stuff, Silk.

...and now to attempt to turn this thread into something all about my narcissistic self!

I seem to attract two types of people: the mother figure and the borderline. For those of you who've read "The Mask of Sanity" you'll know exactly what I'm talking about. The mother figures are fun. The borderlines are not.

As you've said, Silk, the BPD tends to alternate between idealisation and devaluation. Well, I had the misfortune of encountering a borderline on the train a year and a half ago. I should've given her a fake name, but I didn't. My bad. She found me on Facebook and added me. That's okay - I've got 5,000 friends on FB, and MOST of them are stalkers.

But then this girl moved into the house next door to mine.

I still thought that that was okay. Ignore her, bore her, abuse her, and soon enough, she'd start screeching about how horrible I am as a person and would then move on to someone else.

Nooooooooooo.

Over the past year I've stolen $4,500 from her. I've stolen drugs from her house. I "borrow" money that I never return. Yet, no devaluation.

WHY THE FUCK NOT?! I mean, what I am doing wrong here? I've dealt with borderlines in the past and it's never been this difficult to get rid of one!

 Is this the neighbor that tried to kill herself?

Did you ever try to talk to her and tell her honestly and bluntly that you don't want to have anything to do with her? Being honest and straightforward about it could solve your problem. Try it, you have nothing to lose. Make sure she understands you really mean it.

In short: Do not get involved with male borderlines. They are nuts. And if not careful, you could easily drive one to suicide.

I'd be more than happy to read what you have to say on the subject.

Yes, but do not ever express that you are a danger to yourself or others. They will incapacitate you.

Be warry of any drugs they offer, and consider following your own orders with medication if any.

For example, if you don't like the effect, then cut them short, you don't need to go on medication for years, and if you make a mistake taking the wrong medication, it will be quicker to heal the less of the medication you took. Taper off.

Specifically, watch out for the anti-psychotics and tranquilizers. They can be nasty with too much use, and if they are really strong, they can have really fast effects from repeated use.

if u guys are curious to see material written by a borderline male please read anything Jim has ever written on this forum LOL :p

but seriously

<3u bb