Hey fellow Travelers

I make no claims to being a "sociopath/psychopath", I got into this website a couple of years ago because I felt very emotionally disconnected and disassociated from life.  It's since become apparent that I'm either depressed/slightly autistic or both and have evolved to work with that in such a way that it benefits me.
Anyway, at the moment I'm trying to develop  my social skills and this is naturally involving the area of meeting and attracting women.  I'm curious to hear from the people in this community what your opinion and advice is regarding meeting people who are beneficial, enjoyable and ultimately relationship material - as the strings of seductions and superficial relationships really bore me - is and how you think those of us with what could be called emotional handicaps should go about these things? 
Should we accept that we will never be understood fully and give up on that idea, settling instead for being  able to make people "love" us, is it possible to find someone who is a true compliment of you even with such a condition? 

Travel well

JTR