Am I emasculating in your opinion?
Hmmmnnn... I believe you have that potential. Why? Do you find the men you date losing thier sense of worth, identity and becoming hopelessly dependent on you, your life, losing their own?
I think that's typical though, isn't it? That's what all hollywood love stories are all about. Jack falls in love, starts to hit a road block with what is important in their life, and then reaches the moment where he throws everything away in reckless abandon to chase the girl.
Well, let me tell you, running after a bus at 2am in the morning doesn't work.