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Calling on the old timers...


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Hi everyone,

I used to lurk here alot bc I think I might be a sociopath or a narcissist with anger issues. I don't lurk here so much anymore bc honestly I got bored and lots of my favorite posters went away.

To make a long story short I am wondering if any of you have any experience hooking up with another socio/narc. I rly like this girl (wouldn't call it love) but I think she might be another socio/narc bc she is verrry manipulative, charming, and sweet when it suits her, but piss her off and she's the dragon-lady from hell. She also lies alot but tells me the truth when I catch her. She was also diagnosed with opposal-defient (sp?) disorder or something as a teenager and ran away from home, stole stuff and did kinds of shit.

Im also not very emotional and manipulative and violent sometimes but not as much now that I'm older (mid twenties)

My question is do you think our relationship stands a chance? Should I bother? We're both very sexual and the sex is amazing, but she won't share me with other girls and won't have sex again until I comit to her. I tried everything, she's very strong and resists my come ons. I love having sex with her and respect her strength and like her bc we are alot alike and she's very cute and smart. She also became my good friend over the past year and we laugh together at others all the time.

Im esp. interested in what some old-timers I respect think. Anyone can answer but Id really like to hear from Edvard, Anastacia, The Socio, Turncoat, Damaged, Silkthread, Lycan (if he's still around) Spatial Mind (for a narc opinion) and especially Alterego if she's still around bc this girl reminds me of her. Thx all, any advice is appreciated.

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I'll base my suggestions on common stereotypes when it comes to who sociopaths are attracted to. I'll also assume that girl is kind of nuts.

She likes the challenge, usually when you commit to those crazy ones, the attraction is over. You probably know this, or else you'd just commit to get what you want and do as you please behind her back. That is, if you are the way you think you are.

Make her feel good about herself, exaggerate her qualities as though you see her as unique and special. Ask her questions about the most basic and easy things, and make her answer seem like it's the holy grail of information and rejoice just enough so she can believe it.

Making someone feel like they complete you, makes them think of you a lot. When she remembers you, let her remember the upbeat version of you. On the side add a bit of confusion so the feeling of you dating someone else can happen. If she's insecure, then scratch out the confusion part.

In the end, you know her better than anyone so use intuition when applying strategies from the others. My words are solid.

 

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Yeah but she's rly hot and likes violent, messed up sex nobody has ever made me feel this way and now she's got what I want and knows it.

If we break up and I'm the one who does it I think she'll try to ruin me. We know each other's secrets and I like her, that usually doesn't happen with females. I don't want to mess up our friendship, but I want her sooo bad, the sex is mind blowing. Do you think a relationship between 2 narcs/socios can actually work?

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Well, I just joined SC yesterday, but I don't give a shit, cause that's how I roll. :)

About the relationship?? Have some good sex, and if you break up, too bad. My life in a nutshell.

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I'm one of the 'old-timers' here (I was a member of the old nabble forum when it was active), but I can't be fucked giving you my opinion.

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Well, if you like her, don't break up with her please. It doesn't matter that you are both narcs && socios, if you are really into each other you can make the relationship work.

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Has that ever mattered to me? LOL I have been on here for a few years and I am old. :)

I was offering my advice for a relationship with a woman. I am a woman.

 

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Thank you Spatial. She Is not Insecure she is smart, pretty confidant and sexy and can have any man she wants and knows it. She's not crazy, except maybe she's fucked up in bed but I like it that way. ^_^ She reminds me so much of an old poster here who I hope will respond. I won't try to confuse her bc she'll call me on it and back away to keep the upper hand. She's to smart to fall for teenage head games like that.

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He wasn't asking about you.

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No you can't be fucked giving me you're opinion bc your insulted I didnt ask for it. I know who you are but I didn't ask for your opinion bc your just pathetic not a narc or a socio. Lycan and Alterego used to rip you apart, hahaha what I'd give to see that again your just lucky they don't seem to come here anymore, probably bc they got bored of you.

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