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Living Up to Expectations


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Based on what I've read from all the stuff regular people write on sociopaths and psychopaths, I've noticed that common consensus is that once someone is proven to be a sociopath/psychopath, they're automatically deemed a manipulative genius. As a sociopath, it doesn't come naturally to me to have perfect manipulative skills and be the most intelligent guy. I feel that our way of looking at the world is what truly builds our manipulative skills and intelligence. I mean, most normal people don't see the importance of manipulation, so they don't seek to hone their manipulation skills. Also, I just think that we are more intelligent simply because we don't have all these dumb emotions clouding our visions of what truly matters in life. I don't think we were simply born with more intelligence and manipulation skill than most -- I think we developed them because of our sociopathic predispositions. But, this also means that some sociopaths fell behind. Some sociopaths figure out how to manipulate well far earlier than some others. We all aren't the evil genius the general public fears. But, that, in my opinion, is most of ours goal. So before I put y'all to sleep with another rant, I'd like to ask for some advice -- what are some strategies you guys use? How can we live up to that "evil genius" expectation? (I think I'll post some of mine at other times so as not to add to this block of text probably already boring people to sleep).

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First of all, sociopaths have feelings. We may not pay them enough mind, or allow them to overwhelm every aspect of our lives. They are perhaps more shallow, fleeting, and described by a narrower range, but it is a ridiculous misconception that we don't have any "dumb emotions". "Evil genius the public fears"? That is your personal view of sociopaths- an ideal to which you aspire that would serve to feed your narcissism, if only you could achieve it- but what you are actually doing is projecting this idealization onto some imaginary "we" you are seeking to identify with, because you crave a sense of belonging. This is likely because you have always felt like an outsider. Another clue as to your insecurity may be found in your statement: "How can we live up to that evil genius expectation?" Why are you so worried about living up to the expectations of others- expectations that you are projecting onto them? I'll tell you a secret. Someone with a manipulative nature may be able to hone his skill within a particular domain, but it is truly instinctive and natural for them to operate in this manner. Agendas unfold as the manipulator finds himself implementing them. The "tricks" you seem to want to coin are merely observations concerning the strengths, weaknesses, and underlying motivators of others, and an instinctive grasp of how to use them to your advantage, or to further an agenda. If you ask me, troll, you're a try-hard, not a sociopath. Better luck next time. :P

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Experience dude. You have to figure out what you're best at. Some people can't pull off a fucking "Hey there :)." without sounding like a huge creep, but other people can do it and consistently open conversations up for whatever reason they need. There are other people who catch more attention using nonverbal cues, others are better at pissing people off, it really depends on what you can and want to do. Yeah, there are things that work in theory, but it's all about the practice. Some people really can't pull off certain things but excel at others. Not sure if the cheat codes you seem to be looking for really exist, haha.

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^^ Ophelia nailed it. "Manipulation" can mean many things and have different purposes. For the sake of of making life more pleasant and the long term repercussions, leave people off the board. Systems, laws, account books and what not , that is more than fair game. 

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One of the first and best ways to notice a child is gifted is because they show increased concern for others compared to their peers--"Moral sensitivity". So when does this fact suddenly shift? I'm curious. 

As far as psychopaths and intelligence, I've never read a professional piece that suggested they are smarter. I'm wondering where I missed it. Where did you get your info?

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Yeah wtf 888, you either are the shit, or you are not.

Poison is obviously the shit.

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She was 17 at the time of the pics being taken.  Anyway when does the hunk of meat start to stink anyone want to make a thread one day.  Too lazy, sorry.  Oh and a SC member track and murder guide would be good.  Call it "Hide and Seek".  Aren't we all trolls here ;)

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Quite the desperate troll aren't you?

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Really cute...how old is she?

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Do you suppose perhaps it is not "Moral Sensitivity" but logical and reasonable to the degree that the long term investment is worth the short term expenditure. It may or may not work out as intended, but the marks/ scars left will be of Good will and not malignant. 

 

Again that will depend on the intent, situation and context. 

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