How many of you date and still look around so you can "find something better." How often do you "find something better"?
I imagine this is common with a lot of people and PDs.
I mean, if your partner doesn't do something right, you can change them into someone who does do it right.
Not necessarily. If they choose not to, you are screwed as are they. Compromise is not a 4 letter word, but for some it is a loss. Suppose it is a question of of balance as defined by the constructs that are considered a relationship by the parties involved be it the traditional bonding of 1 on 1 male/ female or other.
To be honest that sort of thing is below my standards, but at the same time, I don't understand it. In some cases sure, but why go through all the mess of switching if you can just make it better? I mean, if your partner doesn't do something right, you can change them into someone who does do it right. As far as wanting something new, same thing applies. I don't see the appeal in spreading the love.