I say stop trying to get validation and just do your fucking thing.
Reading their body langue, listening to what they say. I have a great ability to work out what to say to get different people to trust/like/love/hate me. After talking to a person irl for about 10mins I can already work out what type of person they like and I just become the person they want.
Hello, I am almost 100% sure I am a sociopath, but I would like an opinion from a sociopath. I'm a teenage girl, I'm not looking for away to be "different" or "emo". I done my fair share of research on this topic, I grew up in a very emotional/ physical abusive environment. I no longer live with my mother or father (the sauces of abuse). I was told by extended family that my ability to love will come after I learn to trust again. But the thing is, I don't want to love. I get enjoyment out of twisting people, making them love me and then distorting them. I lie a lot, I feel no guilt, I have the ability to get what I want without people realising they gave me what I want. Everything I do is an act, I am liked by everyone. Everyone trusts me and they don't even realise how much I am manipulating them. The only thing I'm not, is charming, I'm seen as a people person. I'm seen as that type of person that "gets along with everyone" who is a "bright spark", "joyful" and "extremely intelligent" (I act to make people like me in those ways. Makes life easier) but people don't see me as charming. Which is a problem, not being charming is the thing stopping me fully believing I'm a sociopath. What do you think? I would go to seek professional help, but I probably lie to them and manipulate them into giving me the answer I want. So it won't be much use.
by ImNotTellingYouMyNameI'm a teenage girl. I done my fair share of research on this topic.
Something makes me doubt that.
I would go to seek professional help, but I probably lie to them and manipulate them into giving me the answer I want.
What answer would it be that you want? You seem to want the label of a sociopath, but you fail to see how it doesn't matter and how that label could actually work against you and your oh so great manipulation tactics.
Sociopath, not a sociopath, whatever. If you don't see a problem with who you, how you handle yourself and other people, and like where you're at then a label would do absolutely nothing for you because there is no problem. The mere fact you're asking for confirmation if you are one tends to make me think you aren't solely because most sociopaths don't care if they are or aren't, and they surely don't want the title of it.