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1) Yes, but only to those I know will let me live off of them. There's a shockingly large amount of people who openly invite others to leech off of them. Never defrauded or lived off the government, but I've never needed to.

2) I don't shit where I eat, so I've never lost a job due to irresponsibility and/or poor behavior controls. I've always had trouble with staying consistent in my jobs, if that makes sense. I have to be a different person for every circumstance, and there are days where I'm too exhausted to maintain whatever facade I've cooked up for that particular person/situation. I'm introvert, but I'm too curious about people to avoid extroverted positions where I get to be around (and deal with) a great number of them all the time.
3) I don't spend wisely, but I've never been in serious debt.

4) I can almost always at least partially blame someone for my own wrong doings. Most of the time, they're just asking for me to take advantage of them. It's honestly strange to me that most people just walk around with the expectation that people aren't going to take advantage of them. I can take the fall if something is 100% my fault, but it rarely is ;)

5) Oh yes, I certainly have these. Probably my biggest weakness (if you want to call it a weakness) is staying attached to one person. I get bored too easily. I may still want them around, but I generally need a new "side project" after a couple of months.

6) Anger issues? Yes. Highly reactive? Somewhat. It depends on the circumstance, and how much I care.

Honestly, Thrill Kill, I wouldn't say this is the best checklist to determine whether or not someone is a genuine sociopath. I think most of the cluster B personality disorders would qualify for all of these, particularly borderlines.

Hi, Thrill Kill. First time correspondent, long time observer.

My attention was first drawn to your internet presence by, you guessed it, Ukan, on the old forum. Several of the members immensely enjoyed your exposure and I had hoped that you would one day return to grace us with your presence.

It is this thread that has provoked my first post to this forum, having witnessed your embarrassing attempts to veil your failures as psychopathic success stories:

How many of you here...

... live a parasitic lifestyle (by defrauding the government and/or living off other people)?

TK, unless your circumstances have changed, you collect welfare from your local Centrelink for the raising of your child. This is not fraud, presuming that the child still lives with you.You’re entitled to this money by law.

You once confessed to having to beg your mother to allow you back over her threshold. That’s not parasitic; that’s desperate.

... have trouble maintaining a steady job (due to irresponsibility and/orpoor behavioral controls)?

I’ll give you that one, citing a probably chequered work history due to your tumultuous relationship with yourex partner and its associated booze and drug binges.

... always blame others when things go wrong?

Oh, Thrill Kill, this is where shit REALLY gets interesting. Because, you see, you blame YOURSELF for everything that’s gone wrong in your life. Every. Fucking. Thing. Even the shit that WASN’T your fault, such as your abusive childhood and the fact that the abuse you suffered led you to seek in your adult partners the same characteristics of your abusive parent/s. You’ve never recovered, Thrill Kill, and that’s what REALLY rips your sociopathic mask off your face and tosses its shattered remains to the ground. Because sociopaths don’t NEED to recover. They act. They do. They don’t DWELL. They don’t waste their lives pining away on psych forums. Some of them have nothing to recover FROM, and those who do lack the insight to realize that they might need to, have, or haven't recovered.

... have relationship problems (due to an inability and lack of desire to emotionally connect with others, and other reasons that relate to sociopathy)?

I’m a busy woman. I have shit to do. See my response to your question above.

... have poor behavioral controls (anger issues/highly reactive)?

You have a high degree of angst, I shall give you that. But, unless I've missed something, you’ve yet to cite a single example of a situation in which that aggression has been acted upon due to a lack of behavioural control. Your aggression seems to be limited to squawking at your fellow Sociopath World posters, accusations of projection framed as though through a mirror. This is probably because your angst has no place to vent. You’re in your mid-forties, you’re a single mother without a dollar to her name. Your life is over and you know it. You’re dead, and you haven’t even died yet.

Being a sociopath is not just about lacking empathy, remorse and guilt and having shallow emotions. It can have a negative impact on your life.

I know this because the things I mentioned above have impacted my life. Yet, the rest of you all claim to be successful with steady jobs and good relationships.

Wrong. Most sociopaths remain undiagnosed PRECISELY because they lead successful lives.

I smell so much bullshit on this forum, this place has become a sewer for all the wannabes

It certainly has. And you’re the biggest wannabe of them all.

Why waste my time on this post? I don’t know. I’m bored, and for some reason, of all Thrill Kill’s desperate attempts to will her fears into bravery (bravado) this struck me as the most amusing and therefore the most worthy of a response.

'Some' doesn't make for a psychopath.

by Helena

It is this thread that has provoked my first post to this forum,

First post to this forum? lol. That's what all the sockpuppets say.

having witnessed yourembarrassing attempts to veil your failures as psychopathic success stories:

I never claimed to be a successful psychopath.

TK, unless your circumstances have changed, you collect welfare from your local Centrelink for the raising of your child. This is not fraud, presuming that the child still lives with you.You’re entitled to this money by law.

Disability Support (which is my main payment) has nothing to do with raising a child. I would still get that money whether I had a kid or not.

You once confessed to having to beg your mother to allow you back over her threshold. That’s not parasitic; that’s desperate.

lol, I've never begged to my mother for anything in my life. I've asked her politely for things (because being polite gets me what I want). You won't catch me ever begging for anything.

My mother has paid, and still pays, for a lot of things that I could be paying for myself, but I'm sure that's not considered parasitic at all, right...

I’ll give you that one, citing a probably chequered work history due to your tumultuous relationship with yourex partner and its associated booze and drug binges.

I'm surprised you didn't come up with some bullshit reason as to why you think that one doesn't count as well.

Oh, Thrill Kill, this is where shit REALLY gets interesting. Because, you see, you blame YOURSELF for everything that’s gone wrong in your life. Every. Fucking. Thing. Even the shit that WASN’T your fault, such as your abusive childhood and the fact that the abuse you suffered led you to seek in your adult partners the same characteristics of your abusive parent/s. You’ve never recovered, Thrill Kill, and that’s what REALLY rips your sociopathic mask off your face and tosses its shattered remains to the ground. Because sociopaths don’t NEED to recover. They act. They do. They don’t DWELL. They don’t waste their lives pining away on psych forums. Some of them have nothing to recover FROM, and those who do lack the insight to realize that they might need to, have, or haven't recovered.

lol, I blame myself for nothing. So, you can see why I find this entire comment of yours amusing. What's even more amusing is that you think I feel the need to recover. Recover from what exactly? One abusive relationship where I kicked the shit out of my boyfriend, who tried to kill me, and got him to turn himself in to the cops?

And what of the rest of my relationships that weren't abusive at all? I suppose they don't count...

I’m a busy woman.

Apparently not busy enough...

Have you considered getting a life of your own or would that be too much effort for you?

You have a high degree of angst, I shall give you that.

That cracked me up.

You've gotta be trolling for sure.

But, unless I've missed something, you’ve yet to cite a single example of a situation in which that aggression has been acted upon due to a lack of behavioural control.

You're just a useless object to me, and yet you want me to prove myself to you?

You must of deluded yourself into thinking you're fucking special or something.

Your aggression seems to be limited to squawking at your fellow Sociopath World posters, accusations of projection framed as though through a mirror.

Right... and when they sqawk at me, that's not projection at all, is it...

Wrong. Most sociopaths remain undiagnosed PRECISELY because they lead successful lives.

Most sociopaths do not lead successful lives. Why do you think there are so many people with AsPD in prison?

You can't tell me that none of them are sociopaths when many in the field of psychiatry believe that AsPD and sociopathy are virtually synonymous.

It certainly has. And you’re the biggest wannabe of them all.

If that's what you want to think, that's fine by me. I'm not here to prove myself.

by omgyjyaSwitch7

Honestly, Thrill Kill, I wouldn't say this is the best checklist to determine whether or not someone is a genuine sociopath. I think most of the cluster B personality disorders would qualify for all of these, particularly borderlines.

 That's interesting, since I based it off the PCL-R.

Worse than Bjj or any other form of jujitsu? 

Terry O'Neil done ok with Shotokan when he was working the doors in Liverpool. Google him.

He would ko someone with a kick, kick them again so they come back up straight, then a third kick to make sure they stayed asleep xD 

That actually looks really useful... Although I'm pretty sure they teach similar stuff like that in krav maga

That would more be his physical strength and ability but it would be wrong to not aknowledge Shotokan's role in that at all, so I guess it isn't as bad as I think...

They certainly didn't teach us that triple kick thing and I can see why ahaha

Shotokan is probably the most useless fighting style to apply to an actual street brawl, so fair enough

This, in my opinion, is the best self-defense training for street situations. I did this type of training several years ago with an instructor who taught street style self-defense: