yeah fucking right. when do men ever change? it's the women that lift the rug to show you the crazy they've been sweeping under it.
females have a certain idea of their "prince charming" set in their mind very early in life. They dress up, put on make-up, and purposely attract that specific male based on a few characteristics early on in relationships (job, car, looks, etc.).
The male's duty is to study and learn about that female. He becomes whatever she desires inside and out (most of the time, falsely). He eventually gets what he wants...pussy. sometimes, that stuff is so good he must protect it, dominate it, own it.
The relationship starts.
He becomes more and more what she likes the more he learns about her.
Time passes. He gets lazy, bored even.
He slowly shows who he really is.
The female fights back trying to change him even more. she was already was on a mission to make him perfectly match her "prince charming"...the fights begin (how to spend money, who to hang out with, etc.).
Now is the time to leave. Go repeat the mission.
by nonoPROThe male's duty is to study and learn about that female. He becomes whatever she desires inside and out (most of the time, falsely).
Says who? Even with my target, I recognized that being myself was vitally important. You can bend and shape your personality around a woman, that's alright they need men like that to pay their shopping bills.
by lewdistyeah fucking right. when do men ever change? it's the women that lift the rug to show you the crazy they've been sweeping under it.
the man becomes what she wants on purpose. No change. Just an act.
Men really don't ask anything more than sex. They may ask for some additions such as outfits, sex acts, etc., but hardly ever do they try to change who the female is (ideologically, characteristics, other foundational type shit).
The female eventually aims to make the man perfect (to match what she expects). this doesn't happen in the early stages, because remember, he has become the false match from what he learned. only after owning it for a bit will his true self be revealed.
Usually takes 3-6 months.
Why don't they just stop spending money like they are on a game show shopping spree. Quit their jobs with reckless abandon and go live life for a while...
The problem isn't them.. the problem is what they're doing...
I AM STILL KICKING MY HEAD FOR NOT QUITTING MY JOB LAST TIME I GOT THAT OFFER!!!
Time passes. He gets lazy, bored even.
He slowly shows who he really is.
Now is the time to leave. Go repeat the mission.
You said, it not me. I don't mind the real "him". Just be nice. Not the biggest requirement in my opinion.
I mean really. I don't care about money, cars, breeding, education, etc.
JUST BE NICE. Is that such an impossible thing to ask??
by StayonhereHave you ever heard of blaming the victim?? Am I the only woman on here?
No, being nice is a desirable human trait for everyone. You date someone= be nice to them. You use someone for sex=be nice to them. You are friends with someone=be nice to them. You have a FWB woman=be nice to them. You have a family=be nice to them.
Maybe you are one of those women who truly do try to treat her man the way he wants to be treated. I don't know. If you are that person, then I would say you have had a bit of bad luck when it comes to finding a man.
Have you ever heard of blaming the victim?? Am I the only woman on here?
No, being nice is a desirable human trait for everyone. You date someone= be nice to them. You use someone for sex=be nice to them. You are friends with someone=be nice to them. You have a FWB woman=be nice to them. You have a family=be nice to them.