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"Pornography. Is it art?"
Why wouldn't it be?

"Do you think it has a negative effect on sex between men and women?"
I'd say that depends on who you're with. Some couples bond over porn.

"If you are a woman.  Does the thought of your loved one looking at pornography make you jealous?"
Why just women? There are women who watch porn, and it's not like it's rare to find such a case.

That being said, it doesn't make me jealous.

"If you are a man. Do you think pornography changes how you relate with women?"
Again with the gender segregating, there are women who act differently or treat men differently from watching porn as well.

I'd say pornography instead gives me another thing to discuss once at that level of comfort with a person. It's usually closer to complaining about certain camera angles and fake noises than anything else, but occasionally Hentai becomes a (hilarious) topic of discussion. Being open to discussing sex without laying expectations on the person can make for more comfort in other topics (assuming it's not "wrong" to that person of course, and even then...).

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I think pornography can be artistic to some degree.

I don't currently have a 'loved one', but I've had numerous relationships in the past and I never experienced any jealousy from my boyfriends looking at pornography. Usually because I would be looking at it with them.

I think it's a turn on and, depending on what type of pornography it is, it can give you ideas on things you may wish to explore in your relationship, thus enhancing it.

Most men are going to look at pornography whether women want them to or not, so may as well enjoy it together.

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Pornography. Is it art?  Yes, Im always looking for the perfect scat video. A really good one is hard to come by

Do you think it has a negative effect on sex between men and women?  Sometimes negative. It can also have a positive effect though

If you are a man. Do you think pornography changes how you relate with women?  Personally, no

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pornography? no...

masterbation... yes...

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In excess.  I think porn can be detrimental to a relationship. 

I think over time, if you dig to deep, into the online porn world. You can become desensitized to it. 

I think porn could be looked at, as art. It can be a beautiful thing.

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Pornography.  Is it art?  

   Do you think it has a negative effect on sex between men and women?  

If you are a woman.  Does the thought of your loved one looking at pornography make you jealous?

If you are a man.  Do you think pornography changes how you relate with women?

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I guess i was getting at the possibility men start thinking of sex visually satisfying instead of emotionally or physically...im starting tothink women get the short end of the stick when it comes to the benefits of porn..the woman often wants foreplay and comfort from a partner before, during, and after..hardly happens in porn world....

   and especially how specific niches are available to please masses now...in a long-term relationship, it might just have the power to replace sex altogetherunless sought outside of it....

I seperated the man/woman part because i wanted both sides specifically...but as i feared, this site is not a place to test for anything normal

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I think it can be art. I also think it can cause sexual dysfunction. Depends on the people. I don't care if anyone, loved or not, uses porn, as long as it never becomes a problem with me and that person (ie a roommate spending rent on it).

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Hey come on, until kids are smoking crack and sucking off 80 year old men dressed in full drag and black lipstick for a hit, then this world will forever be ignorant to the realities of life.

 

It's my favorite clip, what can I say?

 

But I think I might have just found a new one...

 

Is this such thing as a behavioral analyst? Because I want that job.

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Those were the most amazing clips. Pee W. Herman in an anti drug commercial.

 

House on fire.

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