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You simply don't do it.

Not difficult.

Convince yourself it's weak to not control them. worked for me.

i wanted a smore the other week but was trying to restrain sugar consumption, so i walked away from the pantry, threw myself on the ground and flailed about while yelling. 

I controlled my urge to be serious or smart. I am now snarky and stupid.

by SocioChef

do any of you have urges either to rape or kill or both.

Yes, fairly regularly. Sometimes it's all I can think about.

if so how do you control them ? Because recently I'm finding it harder and harder hold myself back.

It can be tormenting having to control an urge that you would otherwise prefer to give in to. I've gotten urges to kill people in public places, and since I have to resist the urge to kill them, I find it quite frustrating.

You have four options:

1) Give in to the urge and risk getting caught. Choose your victim and location very carefully.

2) Have lot's of hard sex. Sex can be a good release. It won't release your urges entirely, but it will release some of that aggressive energy.

3) If you can't find someone to fuck hard, then masturbate. Masturbating to violent thoughts can be somewhat relieving.

4) If sex and masturbation is out of the question, then beat the fuck out of a boxing bag or do some serious exercising. Preferably inside away from other people, otherwise you may be inclined to act on impulse (assuming you're an impulsive person).

by Reaper

 

by SocioChef

do any of you have urges either to rape or kill or both.

Yes, fairly regularly. Sometimes it's all I can think about.

 

if so how do you control them ? Because recently I'm finding it harder and harder hold myself back.

It can be tormenting having to control an urge that you would otherwise prefer to give in to. I've gotten urges to kill people in public places, and since I have to resist the urge to kill them, I find it quite frustrating.

 

You have four options:

1) Give in to the urge and risk getting caught. Choose your victim and location very carefully.

2) Have lot's of hard sex. Sex can be a good release. It won't release your urges entirely, but it will release some of that aggressive energy.

3) If you can't find someone to fuck hard, then masturbate. Masturbating to violent thoughts can be somewhat relieving.

4) If sex and masturbation is out of the question, then beat the fuck out of a boxing bag or do some serious exercising. Preferably inside away from other people, otherwise you may be inclined to act on impulse (assuming you're an impulsive person).

 Thanks o find that when i use violent porn to jerk off to it helps abit:)

"You simply don't do it."
Correct.

"Not difficult."
That's where I don't agree. Urges and the like varies from person to person and case to case. What proves easy for one may be difficult for another not from a matter of one being above the other, but from the differences between them as people, be it from nature or nurture.

I've had plenty of times where I just became frustrated at the woman I stalked.

I wanted to take her since she wasn't giving herself away. Thought about raping, kidnapping and killing her often. Of course, I showed restraint and took my impulses and put them somewhere else like audio production, composing and working out. Occasionally, the impulses would slip past me and some incident of anonymous violence would come upon the men she formerly dated but other than that I was fine.

I remember once I got drunk, I planned to break into her house but instead just sat on her neighbor's roof and watched her through her window. Too bad she was sleeping like an angel.

It is difficult from time to time. Had a trip recently with a good deal of violence....not sexualized violence but defense. And yes I thought of rape but there were cameras despite my arousal. Generally I sequester myself with alcohol or some downer, pot valium etc