It is so frustrating. I write datingasociopath.com
My site is currently closed, as I wanted to write the truth, in an updated post 'can a sociopath change' and it kicked off.
Of course, people want to read that all sociopaths are just evil people who cant behave themselves and just want to dupe and con people.
Yes that happens.
Are any of you in relationships with someone where you have changed? Or at least kept to a code of conduct, and behaved yourselves because you felt you could be yourself with that person without judgement? Or life taught you - and therefore it wasn't really in your interest to fuck that person over?
Person in my life, has been in my life for almost 3 years now. In the early days he was the con man, and got me thousands into debt - was an absolute nightmare. Then came the ruining and smear campaigns. It was hell.
Its been a long process of change. Today he works 12 hours a day, has his relapses sometimes when it goes off the wall, but usually we get on fine. Its been that way for more than a year now.
i wanted to write about this, as I don't believe the whole - they are all evil etc. While you can do things which can be considered evil. I think everyone can learn to manage their behaviour. If you didn't well - I guess you would all shit in the street. You don't as that wouldn't be too cool - right?
Are any of you in relationships, where you have respect for the person that you are with, and don't fuck them over? Just because what is the point? You get on?
