I wish others thought that way.
It's truly a shame.
I don't know really.
The act of taking someones life would be sentimental to me, considering I took something they could never have back. At least then I'd have an answer, besides sitting in this limbo hoping to be with her. And then, I'll be able to do with her as I please with no rejections.
I had to dig deep for that ugh..
The bottom line being, if you dont want a stalker give a definite answer. The only reason I persisted this long was because I was never told no. Even though I asked multiple time throughout the years it was always some avoidant response that left my mind to its imagination. State your boundaries and don't send out mixed messages, which I'm sure you do since your intrigued by your observers.
They can't begin to recover if your still tempting them.