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alright, so obviously, i have a problem. basically, this kid at my school has it in his head that im a psychopath (am i actually? probably not. but i do have a few of the characteristics.) and hes on a mission from god or some shit to make it known. people  are believing it because in their eyes, im fucked up and fit their idiotic ideas of what a psychopath is. anyways, theyre distancing themselves from me, and people who still are my friends have been confirming most of my suspicions of that. and ive been told that everything down to my walk is emotionless (literally. i hear that at least twice a week) so the first question, i guess, would be how do i rebuild the bridges, blend in more and make the kid fuck off (intimidation isnt working and just strengthened his resolve)?

my first idea was to get a girlfriend and make it seem like im capable of love (which i dont think i am, in all honesty) but i didnt want to just use anyone because that could backfire, mainly because i dont have any idea how to behave in relationships and shit. so i talked about it with a friend who already knows my emotional shortcomings, and she agreed to "date" me. problem is, she decided that now was the perfect time to get back together with an annoying, obsessive ex whos pestered her since the minute they broke up. fuck that guy. so, the second question would be should i waste my time punishing either or both of them for fucking me over like that, and how should i go about doing so?

p.s. violence isnt an option. its what everyone else thinks the 'next step' is. and if you dont believe me, then just treat it like a theoretical thing. because, at the very least, its an interesting situation to pull your ass out of.

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"alright, so obviously, i have a problem. basically, this kid at my school has it in his head that im a psychopath (am i actually? probably not. but i do have a few of the characteristics.) and hes on a mission from god or some shit to make it known."

Use it to make him look like the crazy one. Instead of defending yourself, laugh and make the claim appear ridiculous. Even openly make jokes about how much of a "Big bad ol' psychopath~" you are. Make the claim affable, and he won't have anything to stand on.


"people  are believing it because in their eyes, im fucked up and fit their idiotic ideas of what a psychopath is."

So work on your PR skills. It's useful everywhere in life.

What grade are you? It will show us how impressionable of a crowd you're working with.


"my first idea was to get a girlfriend and make it seem like im capable of love (which i dont think i am, in all honesty) but i didnt want to just use anyone because that could backfire, mainly because i dont have any idea how to behave in relationships and shit."

What has you confused about relationships?


"so i talked about it with a friend who already knows my emotional shortcomings, and she agreed to "date" me. problem is, she decided that now was the perfect time to get back together with an annoying, obsessive ex whos pestered her since the minute they broke up."

Mm, sounds like you were "practice", if not a venting point or an outlet.


"fuck that guy."

Why do you care? You don't even like her.


"so, the second question would be should i waste my time punishing eitheror both of them for fucking me over like that, and how should i go about doing so?"

What would it accomplish?


"and if you dont believe me, then just treat it like a theoretical thing."

Closer to not taking seriously. You sound like you care a lot about things that don't really matter too much, but that's just my view.

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Don't you have counselors at school for this kind of thing?

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if they think that just because you look emotionless, they are crazy and stupid. you cant deal with crazy and stupid in a reasonable way. sorry.

Try to be more emotional then.

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by Turncoat

"Use it to make him look like the crazy one. Instead of defending yourself, laugh and make the claim appear ridiculous. Even openly make jokes about how much of a "Big bad ol' psychopath~" you are. Make the claim affable, and he won't have anything to stand on."

good idea

"So work on your PR skills. It's useful everywhere in life."

lol, i thought i was good at them. apparantly not, eh?

"What grade are you? It will show us how impressionable of a crowd you're working with."

12th, but i was held back a year

"What has you confused about relationships? "

im not sure. theyre just completely undesirable, imo, and im just not sure how im supposed to behave, aside from some observations ive made watching friends


"Why do you care? You don't even like her."

its not that i care about them, its just that this would have really smoothed things over (i think), and they got back together literally less than an hour after we started and i started letting people know, and just made me look like an idiot ("so, i got a girlfriend." "...nevermind. shes with her ex again" although, i guess i could spin that into a sadness and jealousy thing

"What would it accomplish?"

nothing, now that i think about it. i was just pissed off when i wrote it


"Closer to not taking seriously. You sound like you care a lot about things that don't really matter too much, but that's just my view."

i do, and ill admit that. ive always picked the more pointless things to care about. i just like my high social standing a little more than i should. so friends leaving bothers me

 

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You're in the twelfth grade, in a year your high school drama won't even matter anymore.

Any friends that aren't superficial won't care about the drama being spread about you, and everyone else will likely become old news once you graduate.

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