"Aspie" is a PF injoke, Helena. A few members there are aware of (and also mock ) M.E.'s work. I'm not one of them. I heard so much bad about her book that I didn't even bother to read it. They also use twisted bastardizations of M.E.'s work to mock each other.
If we must put on our earnest hats now, no I'm not calling the kettle black. lol. My son is on the ASD spectrum. I'm not.
Wooster told me a long time ago that she's schizoid, not aspie.
This is just another shot in the dark (what can I say? Guessing games are fun.) but I'm guessing that she's leading up to justifying this strange behaviour of hers by posting the PM I sent to her beau.
She's welcome to do so. I said nothing to MacB that I wouldn't say to somebody myself. I just thought that since she puts so much stock in traditional values, relationships and... well men... I thought she'd have an easier time listening to him.