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You're never going to get laid, Josh. This type of behavior doesn't work. It's not going to get you what you want unless the only thing you want is to be pitied by strangers online due to your own idiocy. Even then your chances are slim since it does say Sociopath Community.
It's obvious what you're doing with this. The benefits are multiple in your mind. You're getting exposure, attention, you're reaching out to Alena while also letting others know that "females" on a forum talk to you.
So now you threaten with blackmail? Is that really what you want to do? Don't be so desperate for attention and kindness from a girl that you'd threaten to ruin her life in exchange for conversation. You have to realize you're worth more than that as a person. Sure she may give in to demands like this but what's the long term? You think your latent personality can secure her for more than the amount of time it takes to evade you for good?
This isn't even about others anymore. It's just you. Is this what you want to do with your life? Is this the person you want to be?