I see many of you choose to disguise yourselves behind false personalities. Have you ever considered just letting people know what you are. I'm not saying to go around flaunting your disorders, but to act within your own nature without covering your footprints.
I act as so. I find myself using deliberation more than lies and deceit. I do not express my unapathetic opinion unless it is inquired. I've made good relations by just stating my views, no matter how devoid of empathy they may be. My friends and co workers like the fact that I'm brutally honest, and commonly ask me for advice.
Being like this keeps things simple. There is no need for a tangled web of lies, besides I've gained something far stronger than fear. Respect, and it has given me the favors and services I desire.
I am not saying it is for everyone, but it is a suggestion. I am sure some of you only feel comfortable hiding behind lies and there is nothing wrong with that if it suits you well.