Were you born or were you made?
By that, I mean were you a normal child and then were adversely affected by a traumatic childhood event/events? Such as: abuse, abandonement, neglect, etc.
or
Were you born the way you are?
If you were not born the way you are; do you remember the event(s) that changed you? Do you remember what you were like before? Were you old enough to remember forming attachments, having emotions, caring about others, etc. If you were old enough, and you have decent memories of those things, do you have any desire to change, to feel again?
Which is stronger? Nature or nurture? Can nurture override nature?
