she was wearing flip flops, and the tips were white.... good try though.
She doesn't seem to be that dependant on her religion as it is. I say her vanity is where it lies.
People think it's a cheap trick when these good looking women run to men who abuse them about their looks, but it's a classic move.
Have you found her biggest physical insecurity?
You need to gain more emotional dependance from her, stand her up, and then reel her back in with the sweetness. The 'reprogramming' will be better suited when you've already broken and rebuild, to see what exactly she is made of, and how she will bend.
I agree with you, last night when I took her out, i told her i was seeing 3 other beautiful women (which is true) she got quite insecure and started asking how she compared... i told her she was funny and sweeter than the other three... she then followed up with how she compared looks wise... i gave a purposeful pause as if i didnt want to hurt her feelings and said... well you know how younger girls dress... i like that you come off as more mature. shes around 27.
as to the release and reel, i ignore her messages for hours without responding, she always responds instantly. (i actually have 2 messages pending a reply now)
she's already gotten very emotionally with me (helps in bonding) she cried for a good half hour in front of me yesterday... i consoled and helped ease the pain for her... she already sees me as a point of comfort and sexual arousal... and she has made it VERY clear she wants to fuck me...