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Gold diggers want the fancy house, the expensive car, the designer outfits. I'm simply saying I'll make them work for it (if I'm ever rich). They want my money, they'll have to earn it by keeping me satisfied.

It's not about being rich, it's about having perceivable value. That will get you any woman.

by To Decay

In this girl's defense, this guy looks like a creep.

That isnt defending the girl, if anything its making it worse for her

You mean when she accepted his offer to go to a bar just down the street? Even then she was looking quite skeptical.

The point I'm making is that she didn't deny him becasue he might not be a good guy. She denied him because he looks and acts like a creep.

Even with a nice car, she didn't seem all that interested. That being said, it's evolutionarily beneficial for women to care about finding a partner with whom can provide security. I'm sorry if you think that's gold digging. I think you're jealous.

Society may have came around, and realized god doesn't exist, but I see a lot still hold on to their Christian values.

Love isn't real. Having a kid isn't a blessing. Any normal Human being can have a child. Look at all the fat single mothers on welfare. I bet they wish they were gold diggers instead of victims to their emotions. 

"You mean when she accepted his offer to go to a bar just down the street? Even then she was looking quite skeptical."

You mean through that thick layer of facial blurring?

I believe you can judge someone's thoughts by more than just facial expressions. I'd go through the video and point out the signs that I think show her lack of interest, but I don't care THAT much, and I'm sure you don't either. 

I care a little.

Her lines:

1) "Hey..."
She doesn't sound too dismissive. She instead sounds wary.

2) "Not too much."
Politely answering him.

3) "You know... I... usually don't go out to dinner with people."
Feels awkward about how pushy he's being.

4) "Sometimes."
Can't tell if nervous or playing coy.

[She sees the car. Note that she has never told him to go away.]

5) "Is this your car?"
Her tone sounds impressed.

6) "Well I might be able to go out to dinner with you."
No comment necessary.

7) "There's a bar down the street if you want to go."
Yep, totally disinterested. She offered a place to go to, one that's themed around alcohol at that.

8) "There's a bar down the street. (said more clearly and loudly)"
Making sure he hears her. She could have even done a "Nevermind, forget I asked" at this point and just walked off.


Her face being visible would at least leave less room for doubt, especially over if she's being paid for her performance.

It's possible she mentioned the bar to get to know him without being driven off to an unknown location, but that still means she was at least willing to test the waters.

I'd argue that a bar is quite casual. Maybe people frequent bars. When I was in China, so many of my friends at the university spent their weekends at bars.

He was asking for a date, and instead she decided to give him a chance by hanging out with him at a very casual bar. This wasn't a date. She didn't offer her number. She gave him an opportunity to continue the conversation after finding evidence that he might not be the creep she assumed he was. 

Judging by that shirt, hair, way of talking, lack of tan, etc, I doubt this guy owns that car, and what's more, I doubt he's not a creep.

Personally, I think anyone with a car like that is trying too hard. I'd rather see a professional looking luxury car. It shows maturity. This just shows some looser desperate for attention.

Yes, personally you think that. How much do you think you have in common with the girl in the video?

If she were disinterested, the answer would have been "no". At the very least she wouldn't have tried to find ways to get to know him, focusing instead on an exit strategy.

He is a creep, but she began to try to make plans with him.

by Turncoat

If she were disinterested, the answer would have been "no". At the very least she wouldn't have tried to find ways to get to know him.

This is your personal oppinion as well. How much do you have in common with her, Turncoat?

Do you often try to go out with people who randomly talk to you on the street? Do you try to make the plans yourself, and even insist by repeating yourself? Even when he's blatantly creepy?

You're pretty weird Luna.