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Tell her this?

I think you might be trying to hard. Less is more when it comes to comunication with friends.

Tell her this:

     It has been killing me inside ever sense you choose not to be my friend.  I know sometimes I say shit that comes out

wrong, but I do and say things that I believe in my heart is the best for you. I have allways admired your inner strength, and would like

to be more like you someday. Please reconsider and give me the chance to be the friend to you that I know I can be.

For a bonus you could throw in at the end................You Complete Me.      lol

by 404

I recently lost my friend of nine months yesterday. She said she didn't want to be in a friendship with me any longer and said because I was emotionally abusive towards her. I have never been abusive to her, I have taken care to "sugarcoat" most of the things I say to her. I constantly tell her what she wants to hear but that doesn't make her happy either because then she says I'm not saying what I want to say.

I suppose what really broke it was when I damaged her marriage but I did it with her happiness in mind. I even found her someone who was much more compatible to her and was also friendly towards me. I did it with good intentions, how do I make her see that?

 People can be oversensitive. Get new friends. She was useless.

Sounds like you just need to find a new target, I mean "friend"...

Basically what you're asking is how to manipulate someone into being your friend.

Feigned honesty could effectively be a good way. But you know it's not that easy to 'force' someone into being a friend, you have to be a skilled liar and know when to mask the truth and when to use it to your advantage.

Finally there'll always be people that manage to sense that something is off and then the gigue is up.

Ah, true friendship warms the cockles of the heart. After nine months, you damaged her marriage. How'd you do that?

by 404

I recently lost my friend of nine months yesterday. She said she didn't want to be in a friendship with me any longer and said because I was emotionally abusive towards her. I have never been abusive to her, I have taken care to "sugarcoat" most of the things I say to her. I constantly tell her what she wants to hear but that doesn't make her happy either because then she says I'm not saying what I want to say.

I suppose what really broke it was when I damaged her marriage but I did it with her happiness in mind. I even found her someone who was much more compatible to her and was also friendly towards me. I did it with good intentions, how do I make her see that?

this is actually quite funny,   are you really that stupid ??   What you should try to "see" is this is classic of you socios ..  your "9 month friendship" is of any consequence compared to a marriage ?  and you say you haven't abused her emotionally and then admit you did deliberately damage her marriage .... Textbook socio never letting any kind of truth get in the way of your own story.

You should get used to this pattern of being dumped because you're obviously a manipulating self absorbed user.   Don't expect any friendship to last longer than the point you inevitably show your true colours..

by RichardParker

Ah, true friendship warms the cockles of the heart. After nine months, you damaged her marriage. How'd you do that?

  He was extremely irritating and spoke about his dick constantly. I don't think he liked me very much because whenever she told him she was with me, he'd tell her to go home. I disliked his distrust so I made him trust me. At some point he asked to video call him (he is in Japan, Air force maintenance or something.) and I did. He began to make comments about my appearance and how he thought a threesome might be possible. It was really disgusting to be honest. He was trying to groom me so I played along. If anything I think what I did was very good. He started telling me that he liked younger women and felt guilty for liking even children.

I don't see what I did wrong. He would have molested their children. And anyways I found her someone that was better and more suited to her likes and personality. After that she could spend more time with me and her new boyfriend and she seemed happier. 

I'm not a Sociopath.

If anything I might be NPD, but I haven't been diagnosed.