Because the "power of the pussy" isn't exactly the thread for this, and because I wanted to clarify something for Thrill Kill, I thought I'd make a thread about it seperate.
People seem to think that the grass is greener on the other side, this is a basic human belief that we're all born with. We try to lose it at maturity, but that doesn't always occur.
My point in the previous thread was that you get the kind of attention you seek, you get from the world what you put in, so long as you seek just that. Or, you get what you're seeking.
If you see men or women as "things to sleep with", then that's how your relationships with them will be defined. You're not going to find anything else in that. If that's okay by you, then that's fine. If not, then you need to make the change.
Men that chase after women full of looks that lack personality, ask for finding themselves a golddigger, and every other type of shit-excuse-for-a-woman. Just as women that chase after bad boys because they aren't boring, bring it upon themselves when they find out they were cheap entertainment for those men. Just like those men were to her, she just didn't acknowledge it.
So you decide to be a pump-n-dump for a man you desire sexually, that's your choice, and its not a bad one. You enjoy it, and sex is fun. And to you, he's just an oversized-dildo.