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I don't like to diagnose but....


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I think I do have what they call ADHD, it seems to be why people find me annoying. I still think its their problem, but I'm willing to work on not being so hyper and too talkative around them. But I'm going to have to be open and honest, the fact that I can't be myself around people, for the sake of not annoying them, does mean that I can't like them.

This is something I've been working on lately, and people wonder why I don't like them nor be nice to them anymore. You judge me, but that's okay. I don't accept you for you back, and you're offended? You're a joke. A sad one at that. Call me an asshole, but what's there to like about you? Sure... there's alot not to like about me from your perspective too, but at the end of the day, I wouldn't want to be you, and I certainly love being me.

It's not that I have too much energy. Certainly, I should regulate it better and work on it, I didn't realize it was the problem for you. At the end of the day, its still you who its a problem for, there are people who accept me for me, and let me be me, I value them not you.

Just had to rant. An interaction I had. Plus, I've been thinking a bit lately on what to say to the people who run the groups.

Again though, if you find me annoying, mute me. There's no reason you have to listen or respond to me. Show some willpower.

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I don't like to diagnose but....

I think I do have what they call ADHD, it seems to be why people find me annoying.

No. Just. No. NO. NO, NO, NO. Why?! WHY!! I'm done.
I would put every single person like you in a boat and send it off to stereotype land. I would like you to know that having ADHD has nothing to do with being annoying. It's not a fucking trait. Same to the other dumbass who thought he was an aspie because people found him annoying.

What happened to the "I don't care for labels"? I think you are closer to mania than attention deficit hyperactive disorder, Prom.

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I don't like to diagnose but....

Narc.

This is you right?

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I don't like to diagnose but....

If you think ADHD is why people hate you, find some extroverts and befriend them. If they hate you as well, you might have ADHD, if not you are probably just tormenting introvert or you could just be a shitty person. Something to think about.

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I don't like to diagnose but....

Ok, I googled ADHD traits and tried to copy-paste them, but the forum messes it up Luna.

 

Malevo just got butthurt because he felt it was personal, but I can see why other people would find ADHD annoying. Hell, look at impulsivity there, it even mentions "causing problems in social settings". It does sound a bit like you, prom, so maybe you should look into it and get treatment.

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I don't like to diagnose but....

 

 You sound insecure. I know a lot of people who talk relentlessly not because they're the narcissists other people assume they are and that they love to hear themselves talk, but because they're terrified of silence.

This question confuses me:

You judge me, but that's okay. I don't accept you for you back, and you're offended?

Perhaps it's just that you've worded it poorly, but it sounds like you're distressed that people might judge you. Insecure blabbermouths often are - they're the ones most likely to screech "DON'T JUDGE ME!" whenever anyone calls them on their bullshit. Which, given the fact that they can't shut their damned mouths long enough to think about their next sentence, seems to happen an awful lot.

With that being said, if you really do have ADHD and you are prepared to make some changes to fit in, I think you'll find yourself shrieking "DON'T JUDGE ME!" less often. Most likely, whether you have ADHD or not, you'll learn not to care whether people judge you. Unfortunately it's hard wired into the human nature to make judgements of a personal nature, and there's nothing you can do about it. But if you manage to shut up for a moment and listen to others, you'll probably find yourself becoming less a target of offense. My advice? Listen more than you speak, but don't care about whatever you hear.

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I don't like to diagnose but....

 

by malevo

I think I do have what they call ADHD, it seems to be why people find me annoying.

No. Just. No. NO. NO, NO, NO. Why?! WHY!! I'm done.
I would put every single person like you in a boat and send it off to stereotype land. I would like you to know that having ADHD has nothing to do with being annoying. It's not a fucking trait. Same to the other dumbass who thought he was an aspie because people found him annoying.

What happened to the "I don't care for labels"? I think you are closer to mania than attention deficit hyperactive disorder, Prom.

 You're right, I don't care for labels. Though when it comes to something that might impact my health or other situations in my life, one starts to want to know what the problem is, and try to figure out what the solution is from there. The ADHD part was a suggestion made by a group leader I get along with a while back, that I didn't really take seriously. But it came up later after that.

by Edvard

Ok, I googled ADHD traits and tried to copy-paste them, but the forum messes it up Luna.

 

Malevo just got butthurt because he felt it was personal, but I can see why other people would find ADHD annoying. Hell, look at impulsivity there, it even mentions "causing problems in social settings". It does sound a bit like you, prom, so maybe you should look into it and get treatment.

 I'll see about it. It does seem to explain alot. Who knows? I don't take anything Rass says personally, he seems to have harbored a grudge from when I'd pick on him.

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