Because he fucking wants to.
Best answer = "he's a 'dawg'".
Otherwise you need to provide more context.
"Conspiracy". I do that all the time. ie, get really close to a woman (if he is teenage, that is different, talking adult)..."I think you'd really like him..." etc. What you're really doing, from a male perspective, is creating an opportunity to create this secret bond -- "wow, he knows me so well..."
You create w/ her "your own little bubble", or your own "secret world", or whatever you want to call it.
Works like a charm.
by FineWineBest answer = "he's a 'dawg'".
Otherwise you need to provide more context.
"Conspiracy". I do that all the time. ie, get really close to a woman (if he is teenage, that is different, talking adult)..."I think you'd really like him..." etc. What you're really doing, from a male perspective, is creating an opportunity to create this secret bond -- "wow, he knows me so well..."
You create w/ her "your own little bubble", or your own "secret world", or whatever you want to call it.
Works like a charm.
Sounds like something he would do, thanks.
Sometimes it's as simple as asking yourself; "does this person, more times than not, make me feel happy or sad?" If he makes you sad more often than happy then you have some internal work to do.
Try to spend less time/energy understanding what's going on inside his mind and more on what's happening inside your own. Think about why you put so much energy into someone who makes you unhappy. That piece is more about you then him. At least those are my thoughts...
Best of luck and Happy New Year. :)
np.
Read through your posts a little more closely. Probably not socio, but def "dawg" and deeper issues. Victim shit, lying, etc. Personality disorder but soicio? Hard to say.
Again, more context. I can def. use various ways to get closer to someone, but I hate victim bs, and never lie for the fuck of it, and personally find the idea of making people feel sorry for me disgusting. Weak motherfuckers.
Regardless of what he is, he planted hooks in you. Not only sociopaths do that, but it's interesting to see. Also Lotus, I know exactly what you're enduring with that guy who sends chills down your spine. My advice to you is to set boundries, when it's one sided say no. What's happening there IS a power struggle. Take back your power, and watch him make a new game. As for you, the experiences you're receieving here will transform you. It is a rare oppertunity for you to dramatically change. You already know, change you must. It's like your in a movie. In any case,read about NPD, and HPD. I've seen bipolar do psychopath stuff too. The reasoning is different. If you keep an open mind, you'll understand more and more. Though he's extreme, don't take him personal. Your transformation for the better or worse has already started. I recommend practicing courage, and I don't suggest challenging him. Ditching him is optional. But it's too refreshing in a freaky way that makes you feel more alive, isn't it. Happy new year. Back to mingling.