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I didn't conveniently miss your question at all, so get over yourself.

You asked me why I care... I think that if people are going to continually accuse me of being delusional, they should at least back it up, but so far, that hasn't happened because they know they can't.

This has been going on for years on three separate forums - 4D, Psychforums and here - most likely by the same people. It's the same bullshit being repeated over and over again and I'm tired of it.

I don't care if they don't believe I have AsPD. That's not the issue. I would feel the same way if this was over my schizoid diagnosis instead. I'm just tired of being told I'm delusional when there is nothing that even indicates I am. So, if they're going to continue to accuse me of it, then I want to see what proof they think they have that backs up their claim.

for one, I could never get over myself,  I'm too awesome. two,  there is no reason to get defensive. my aggressive tone has nothing to do with you specifically.

the only thing I could think of when it comes to someone being truly bothered by a label given to them is that there is some form of truth in it,  and the person accused is denying it. otherwise the proper reaction would be to show indifference.  instead of caring you could ignore the accusations, who gives a damn. they don't know you, you don't know them, move on.

you choose to obsess instead.

do you wish to know why in hopes to gain insight on what you are doing "wrong"?  there is a pattern that's following you, and if you have noticed this pattern and plan to change that negativity you obviously are creating, then I applaud you in this venture. but if this is just to one up others to make yourself feel important, ceasing to grow mentally at all, then  you deserve this. be the better person and let it go. they can't get to you if you don't let them. you let them, infact, you seem to beg for it.  if you are sick of playing with children, get out of the playground.

since she makes around 40 posts a day that'll never happen

by Piles the Beaver

you choose to obsess instead.

No. I'm just asking them to back up their claims. If anyone is obsessing, they are. They're like mosquitoes that just won't quit.

do you wish to know why in hopes to gain insight on what you are doing "wrong"?

 Of course not. I'm not doing anything 'wrong'. I'm simply being myself.

mosquitoes don't quit because they are hungry. stop advertising the mass amounts of plasma you carry and they won't wish to feed.

thanks, but I wasn't interested in excuses, they don't answer questions.  and I don't think it's justified in realty either. only the people you choose to matter matter. everyone else should remain irrelevant.

For instance, say no one believed TK was a schizoid, and they thought her defending that she is was because she truly isn't.

That makes no sense. Why would anyone spend so much time defending something if it wasn't the truth?

It makes more sense to defend something you know is true in order to maintain some credibility.

The problem with people accusing me of being delusional is that other idiots, who are easily influenced, begin to believe it too, even though they have no reason to. Then, when I try to share my experiences related to the disorder, it simply gets brushed aside as another 'delusion' when it's not at all, and that frustrates me.

How am I supposed to have decent conversations if people foolishly believe that I have nothing of value to say.

I think what you meant to say is, " how am I to be taken seriously if they won't believe a word I say?"

why do you feel the need to be taken seriously online?  and you shouldn't assume everyone thinks you have nothing of value to say.  do you just want to be heard, Tick?  Is your suffering that real in your life?

lol, I'm not suffering. I just want to be able to post in peace. That's all.

I'm not saying everyone should believe me. I'm simply saying that if you're going to accuse me of something then back it up.

Aw, feeling all alone to the start of the new year, tk? I'll give you this though. You're certainly anti-social...that's for sure. But I'm afraid this isn't your choice, is it tk?

It's easier to think you have aspd, and you don't want to socialise with anyone, rather than facing up to the fact, that no one wants socialise with you. Not even your own daughter wants to know you.

And as for being a sociopath... Don't make me laugh, you're far too sensitive :)