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Sociopaths and love


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Hi,

My husband has gone off with a sociopath. She literally set her sites on him, even telling her husband that if she could sleep with anyone else it would be my husband! She then started the mind games with me saying someone thought her and my husband were having an affair, just to get me thinking. She has manipulated him right the way through. He lost his £50,000 a year job because she showed her husband emails between the two of them (Not acceptable in the army!) She has all the traits of a sociopath and is in the process of doing her PHD in psychology. She now lives 5hrs away so I really don't think my husband is ever going to see her true colours as he only sees her every other weekend, he's besotted and believes everything she says.

I don't know whether I'm posting on the right site but wanted to know if there's is a likelyhood that she will see through her and whether she really is capble of loving him.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Standing x

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Sociopaths and love

so play her game documenting this and reporting it to a mental institution to get her locked away then laugh at her while she's stuck in there

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I think sociopaths want love, displays and professions of of love, but cannot truly absorb it

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They are like worn out loofahs. Only a little but of moisture can get soaked up or come out.

 

Worn out loofahs=sociopaths.

Write a book about that, M.E. ! 

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They can absorb it; it just doesn't stick very long, and the recurring emotional void provokes them to stir up drama so as to simulate what they misconstrue as a "normal" affective experience. If a sociopath accepts his fleeting emotions and blunted affect so as to consciously define "love" as a wilful decision, as opposed to a hormonal reaction, his relationships are more likely to succeed over the long term.

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Sing it sister.

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