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by Thrill Kill

What your mother and daughter say doesn't matter, because my mother and everyone I know says the same about me. And I'm a cuddly teddy bear, you know that! But a very insecure, defensive one. Just like you say. ;)

The difference between you and I is that I've never been very affectionate, not even as a young child and I know that because my mother told me. I never bonded with my mother because I just never had the desire to. Where as, you seem to have a desire for affection, yet hide it as a type of defense mechanism. Which then makes me wonder why.

What happened to you to want to hide your affection from your own family?

 Huh? The person who claims I'm cold and indifferent, also hates being hugged by my grandma because she hates being close. It's projection in my mom's case. She's diagnosed NPD. As for me, I can act affectionate, I'm more sensitive being touched on my skin elsewhere than on my penis. So I'm actually very cuddly, I get off on it sexually. I orgasm weird.

As far as bonding, its not that I want to hide it, I want to be able to bond, I just haven't. Maybe I will someday. Then the people I mess around with, including my ASPD ex who I think was just teasing me, won't complain so much that I'm distant. It's funny you jump to hiding it and more being defensive.

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It's funny you jump to hiding it and more being defensive.

 Because you mentioned that you're "a very insecure, defensive one" in your post, duh.

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You still didn't answer the question...

Do I need to dumb it down for you?

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Chat isn't working now

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Nope and hasn't been for awhile now. Luna needs to get off her ass and fix that shit.

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Chat service is back up! :)

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As to your original question TK, if its about how I deal with my parents, its an invalid question. As I don't push them away. We were never close to begin with. I've been more than welcoming to them for the longest time to let them into my life, they wanted to part. Not my problem.

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why do you people even care

 

that's a sign of empathy

 

i didn't care

 

you should be like me and not care and stop having emotions

 

what is emotions?

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by demonicaliens

why do you people even care

 

that's a sign of empathy

 

i didn't care

 

you should be like me and not care and stop having emotions

 

what is emotions?

 Dude... I believe she was just going at it just because we were going at it before chat went down. We were (or at least I was, and I strongly suspect TK as well) just going at it just to go at it. Because its fun.

If you want to join in on the fun, stop being whiny. Nobody cares who cares and who doesn't.

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Yep, you're a troll...

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