people think I'm real, when actually...... I'm just three ducks in a Man costume.
IRL I'm puppy-dog nice. If my friends get mad at me it's for giving people the benefit of the doubt and a million chances they think don't deserve help. But I have sympathy for everyone, regardless what goes wrong in life.
What I'm against is letting conflicts spiral out of control, where more people suffer or resources get wasted.
I come across online as either a pushover or a pushy person because I try to include and work with all people.
I learn the most from people least like me because they challenge me to see and say things in new ways. I see this process as "mutual" between people, who equally influence each other to reach an understanding of our differences.
If others fear the process of change, they may fear me or others are "trying to control or change them," when none of us controls things any more than anyone else. This "fear" gets projected causing mutual misperceptions.
for everyone who has misperceived or misjudged me, I catch myself doing the same, and I try to apologize also.
That's really is Amy Tan BTW. If you go after a closet geisha in leather, yes, pick someone like her with money.
Glad you are way up in Canada. We can safely argue about politics and slap/whip each other from a distance. And not get in any real trouble fighting. You should tell me all about your real life girlfriend(s) and not tease me either.
By the time you decide you disagree and hate my views, perhaps we'll break even at neutral. If I'm lucky!
Nemo were you Mr Unknown? Why not post an intro thread giving some of your background or reason for being here. Or a question? If you start posting topic threads or questions then ppl can tell you apart from trolls or puppets.
If you want I can add your description to ROLL CALL thread, or thread for profiles. If you list your alternate accounts then there wont be confusion over which names are yours. Thanks, pls post more