Do you think it's worth to have the same relationship for a long time?
Some time I know all about her. She becomes boring. And if I dont need something from her, she can go.
I've played well, she was sad. She tried to make me also sad, haha!!!
I have had other girls in bed during the relationship. She was really loving "the good sides of mine".
Only one relationship is boring. Other opinions?
Hi TM i consider all my friendships to be lifelong commitments, even when we part company to focus elsewhere. I don't believe in terminating things on a bad note, but resolving any issues so all relations remain open stable and healthy.
1. for what you need, do you think you could find a partner open to polyamorous or multiple partners? swinging? some ppl manage to keep committed relations while having open marriage or swing with other married couples so it stays consensual and safe, both physically and emotionally
2. I believe a lot of these physical or sexual attractions can be spiritual karma. So if you always work to resolve your relations fully with each person, it is more clear which are platonic relationships and which are the significant sexual/romantic partners. If you go by consensus in making decisions together, nobody gets hurt, and you will find partners who agree to the same things. I think it is a matter of finding the right "primary" partner, and the other relations will work out from there.
by TM
Some time I know all about her. She becomes boring. And if I dont need something from her, she can go.
You've said it all.
I don't think there are any benefits of long term relationships. Most of the time you get what you want in the first months then it is just plain boring routine.
The more you'll stay with her, the more control she will expect from you and the more conflicts you'll get into with her.
I usually date a couple of women at the same time and pay the most attention to the one who compliments me the most and gives me the most free stuff and such. I've up and left without saying a word for months making no contact with a girl only to make contact again months later for some easy sex or when something isn't going my way. After I usually take out all my problems on them and leave again.
It's rough to find someone who fits my criteria, as I have specific requirements that must be fulfilled to find it worth being a relationship in the first place.
With the ways I enjoy sex with kinks, I'd be a walking callous if I tried to be with multiple people. I couldn't keep a polyamorous lifestyle a secret even if I tried, plus teaching multiple people the things I like sounds like a lot of work. Luckily, who I'm with is open minded, sexually adventurous, has kinks that coordinate with mine, and her appetite for sex is almost on par with mine. Why would I need someone else?
by RichardI don't think there are any benefits of long term relationships. Most of the time you get what you want in the first months then it is just plain boring routine.
There a number of financial reasons that allows one to benefit from a long-term relationship - Life insurance being one of them.