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Scared somebody with your stare ...


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Has anybody ever " forgot " to " turn off " their eyes only to look/speak to someone and see them overcome with fear ?

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this is none sense

u can play the staring game to make the wuss look down at their shoes but id hardly call that being over come by fear

that takes a little more effort

 

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Scared somebody with your stare ...

I can scare ppl with my words without meaning to. If they dont know my intent, and i bring up some hot button issue, they can project their fear on me, convinced i am trying to preach, control, manipulate, etc.

Just from bringing up an issue.

Because i am so serious about resolving problems, i made two ppl cry to my boss at work afraid i was mad at them when i wasnt at all. So i have scared ppl in ways that shocked me as the exact opposite of my intent. I remember thinking how the heck did that happen how could anyone be scared of me, what did i say wrong what did i do???

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thats a whole different kind of scared emily

that said im happy not to work in the same place with u

 

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Scared somebody with your stare ...

Sounds like you're not doing it right.

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sounds like uv been watching too much television

 

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so then enigmatic reaver

u walk around staring people in the streets like the fucking dracula and make them piss their pants

tell me how it works for u reaver

discribe a situation for me

 

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Scared somebody with your stare ...

good grief...

 

 

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Scared somebody with your stare ...

 

by Emily Nghiem

I can scare ppl with my words without meaning to. If they dont know my intent, and i bring up some hot button issue, they can project their fear on me, convinced i am trying to preach, control, manipulate, etc.

 I told you you're manipulative and controlling. There was no projection of fear, lol.

It's called making an observation. You should try that sometime - observe more and talk less. Then you might actually learn how to communicate a lot better than you do now.

 

Because i am so serious about resolving problems, i made two ppl cry to my boss at work afraid i was mad at them when i wasnt at all. So i have scared ppl in ways that shocked me as the exact opposite of my intent. I remember thinking how the heck did that happen how could anyone be scared of me, what did i say wrong what did i do???

You suck at communication, pure and simple.

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Scared somebody with your stare ...

Not quite but there were times where I'd be staring off into space thinking about nothing and apparently I looked like I was thinking about bad things.  I wasn't really thinking about anything though.  So I guess in a way I do have to be conscious of that.

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