In real life when questioned or faced with a situations you want to avoid, what do you do...
: to stay away or avoid from someone or some situations.
: to avoid dealing with or facing something, topics or situations.
: to avoid doing something required of you
and what techniques do you use to do so?
Please use some examples, and try to not be to theoretical and abstract. If you do have some insight there is. If you don't theoretical and abstract will do just fine.
I understand you can divide the types of reactions to conflict as
AVOIDANCE or "no way"
COMPETITIVE or "my way"
ACCOMMODATING or "your way"
COLLABORATIVE or "our way"
I tend to be the last way, collaborative. So I try to include all people's views or sides, and work back and forth round and round, till the combination of yes's and no's comes together in a solution that everyone agrees to (and any objections are resovled in the process). This way, people in the process can be of any and all of these ways of reacting.
by Missywhat techniques do you use to do so?
I have no problem facing most situations, but if there is something I want to avoid, for whatever reason, then I will usually make up some bullshit story to get out of whatever the situation is.
Lying is a great tool to get out of doing things.
If I get caught lying, then I just make up another lie to cover the previous lie.