Is it possible that I chased my PS away versus her merely discarding me? I was pretty addicted to her and she mentioned several times that my calls to her made her anxious. She definitely used me and her methods of what she did and how she treated me match perfectlywith a PS... but just curious.... creating an overbearing response... never leaving the SP alone could be a way of breaking up with one. For the record...I didn't want to stop seeing her but I think my obsession with her made her hi with the other guy... even though we were together in bed when the other guy showed up.
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Dear Lostboy: It sounds like your relationship was not healthy to begin with but imbalanced by both people in it.
If one thing didn't end it, something else would have. With relations like this, it sounds like BOTH partners were taking their own issues and bringing them into the relationship.
It is more effective to resolve your issues on your own, where you can focus fully on your side of the equation. Before you seek to add another person into the mix who comes with their own baggage and issues.
Keep working on yourself, commit to change yourself for the better. And you will attract the right people in your life who can work with you through these stages. Take it one step at a time, start with yourself and the rest will follow.
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