Is it true; is it kind, or is it necessary?
If it's spoken or done with love, it's for lovesake which is sufficient unto love.
Shitsake
Love is patient. Love is kind. Charity is the greatest love of all. Forgiveness is the greatest act of charity.
Forgiveness stinks
Unforgiveness stinks worse! "Unforgiveness is like swallowing poison and waiting for the other person to die"