Holy Fuck! Chill pill - ladies, calm down you are destroying one another. This isn't good!! Make love not war.
Now please, take your clothes off and hug it out.
Ew. That's not quite what I had in mind.
I was thinking more of a group thing... you all get in a room together, take off your clothes and share your feelings. I'll moderate.
On a serious note - this is not getting you anywhere. You're strong, you're independent and you're going to fucking kill each other. Stop the madness.