I know how the others feel, but this is not important for me. I really feel nothing even when others cry or shout.
forgive my ignorance, but i don't get what you mean by direct and indirect empathy.
your dad rejected you or was rejected as a child?
i don't know if any of us can have the same exact feeling as the other person, b/c feelings are fueled by our past experiences, so our feelings must be different on a certain level, they must have a different meaning.
i think it's the general emotional park. i think a similar experience helps... that's how you can empathize.
I'll preface this since I'm new: I'm not a sociopath, but I'm decently anti-social.
Empathy is one of the things I have the most trouble with. I feel emotions, know intellectually that other people have emotions like mine (in theory), but can't seem to connect the two in the social situations. I identify with your example of feeling bad because you know someone else feels bad. I feel regret when I cause someone pain. But their pain isn't my pain and I tend to forget quickly that they're in pain (which is hella socially awkward).