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on 11/14/2013
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Greetings to all.  My grandson, Mitchell, is 17 years old.  He recently found trouble with the law and was subsequently sentenced to probation.  He is was such a good boy when younger, and now he is messing his life up, not to mention ruining his parents life financially and spiritually. 

I will get to my point.  I came across a good book leading me to this website which reminded me a lot of how Mitchell acts when he gets, well, during one of his episodes. 

For all of you with grandmothers out there, what kind of advice can I give to Mitchell to straighten his life out.  He claims he is a sociopath and doesn't care about anything.  I know that isn't true because I watched this boy grow up.  I mean, what would your grandmother say to you to encourage you to straighten up?

Thank all of you for your heartfelt concerns.

on 11/14/2013
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Hi Grandma! 

It's so sweet of you that you are worried about your grandson. I think that it's possible your grandson has identity issues. If he claims to be a sociopath, it might be evidence that he's experiencing or has experienced social problems which have left him feeling insecure, and sad. Perhaps he finds it easier to claim he doesn't need to be socially accepted than face rejection by making social attempts.

I wonder what he could have done to go on probation? If it was with a group of friends, my entire theory is dead :D

Tell us, does he have a lot of friends?

Luna

on 11/14/2013
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Maybe it's just my general mistrust of people, but I'm having difficulty believing this is for real lol.

on 11/14/2013
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you are not alone.

on 11/14/2013
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Says the lone wolf to the lone wolf?  lol

on 11/14/2013
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I was going to add "yes...Ironic"...but emily has given me a rabid fear of posting any more than three fucking words.

on 11/14/2013
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My troll detector is going off pretty strong. I could be wrong, but I don't believe anything any so-called 'new' member says anymore.

The first thing I thought when I finished reading this post was, "I wonder if this is Tempest (from psychforums) pretending to be Mitchell's grandmother, lol. Why would she do that over here though? Mitch doesn't post here"

on 11/14/2013
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Bahahahaha I actually snorted.  That's some funny shit right there hahaha

on 11/14/2013
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Dear Grandma: when I taught in a program for one on one education, we connected with the students' interests and tied the mentoring and tutoring with that. Can you find out what he naturally enjoys doing, and use that as incentive for finding a mentor or peer group?

If the family is spiritually inclined, I have listed resources to help with specialized counseling and therapy for "generational" disorders.

http://www.spiritual-healing.us my friend Olivia is listed here who has helped many families for free to heal the parent-child relationship.

If the family is more secular, and is not familiar with the healing process I recommend the books listed on that site that explain it.

Do you which approach the family uses?

I find it more effective to let the grandson pick which interests motivate him to try new things and build the counseling around that.

on 11/15/2013
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Gertrude,

Please get your old ass back home this instant.  Stop worrying about that damn boy.  I need a ball rub.  I will get Martha to do it if you don't get your ass home by 9 pm. 

Hate,

Grandpa Dick

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