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Perhaps Sociopathy is not so rare?


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Forgive me for the following relatively lengthy rant. 

I have been doing copious research into Sociopathy for quite some time now, and have come to know a few self-proclaimed, as well as secretive Sociopaths. 

Through all of this, I can't help but think that the whole phenomenon behind Sociopathy has been exaggerated and over sensationalized. The reason I say this is because, of all of the traits that a typical Sociopath is said to have, most of them are prevalent in every person I have met. These traits simply reveal themselves in different quantities and qualities. 

Human beings have become ever suppressive in today's society, since their happiness with mediocrity is largely based on the dismissal of doubt, because if one doubts, one has to accept certain truths and other falsities, and your facade could crumble. 

But if you were to strip away that fervent suppression, one would find the "Id" (-Freud), where all unfiltered desires occur. One could argue that a Sociopath has a firm grasp of his Id, but does not reject it. In saying that, is it not safe to say that everybody has the capacity to be Sociopathic, much as they say everyone has the capacity for murder, circumstance permitting. 

Suffice to say I think that we are all equally evil/good, but we differ in what we suppress, and what we cover up our desires with. 

This can either be seen as naivety, or as an acceptance of different levels of introspection and self-acceptance (morals and subjectivity aside). 

Either way, my point is that I don't believe that Sociopathy should be seen as a mental illness, and I certainly don't think it should have such weighty negative connotations connected to it. 

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Perhaps Sociopathy is not so rare?

 good post.

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Perhaps Sociopathy is not so rare?

 It was never seen as a mental illness. What sets sociopathy apart from the typical, is the lack of emotion in some areas. The emotions that encourages one to treat others better and allow prosperity, the sociopath lacks. What motivates a sociopath to stay cool has more to do with what is of service to them, breaking rules isn't worth it most of the time.

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 I've heard it referred to as a mental illness a few times; perhaps I should not be so quick to assume truth. 

You see, my opinion about those emotions is that it's a construct for everyone. It's just such a powerful one that it has become the norm. I often find myself reacting to something with a feigned emotion, but it is almost an automatic response based on how I was raised, and on what I know is the 'accepted social norm'. 

My point being, I think we all essentially lack those emotions, but most of us are conditioned very strongly to abide by them. 

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I like to believe that it's all due to society being conditioned to a point where people do apply more drama on top of what they are feeling, in some cases to match the norms they've learned off the media. I've seen people use movie quotes while being dead serious. Part of that drama probably has to do with the ego wanting to be seen/accepted that way, so it comes out strong. Everyone has a hidden agenda or some kind of secret. I for one have thoughts and opinions that I really think are true. Things that can make others mad, so I hold off on sharing. When people are ready, they'll discard one false sense of self for another ego that all of a sudden isn't hurt by what use to set them off. That, or they make a change for the worse and spend too much time complaining about what happened in the past, which slows one's development.

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