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Why do I attract borderlines....


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They know full well they don't like folks like me. The only reason I bother talk to women, is because I want to have kids someday. Even that instinct is fading, the more and more women that seem to want me. They hate nice guys though, but is that not the kind of guy more suited to these idiots?

They don't get it, even if I tell them. I even told this girl about my past. She seemed unphased. She tried painting herself as everything I am, she clearly is just annoying.

I someday want to make paying bills easier, and to have kids. I don't bother to look for anyone, they all find me. That must be why. Which is why I'm starting to think its a waste of time. We want different things. They want a fairytale marriage, I never want marriage. I don't want commitment, I don't have love, nor any of that to offer. Why waste your time hoping I'll change? I know what I want, you should learn what you want and let me find someone who wants what I want.

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 Because your self esteem is fragile... They feed you and the codependency feels good to you. Learn to love you.

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 Maybe you should try being real with them, from the beginning.

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I'm not sure what you're asking?

You want to know how to date a girl without it leading to marriage, or you want to know how to be more unattractive?

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 Really, Romeo.

 

It must be your Axis for men.

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 You are so full of shit with this post. You only posted it to prop yourself up. 

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 WEE OOOO WEEE OOOO

 

Bullshit detector going off.

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 You codependent narcissistic piece of dung... You smell like another poster. Emily, get your pen out.

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 

by SAM

 You codependent narcissistic piece of dung... You smell like another poster. Emily, get your pen out.

 Because you sound mature....

This post really had nothing to do with borderlines from the getgo, really just this one, and my frustrations with borderlines that don't try to be themselves. It's often the case with ASPDs as well, sad really, because some ASPDs are alot more fun. They find things to say, that actually get to you, and you just go back and forth with them, both of us being amused, but you seem incapable of such fun....

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Why do I attract borderlines....

 So Prometheus, it is funny. I get accused of being a borderline a lot. Which I am not. I thought i was for years but then I realized my moods are not dependent on people. Plus, I don't get jealous, test people, etc.

 

I am Bipolar though.

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