hmm..i'm usually an advocate of revenge but doesn't he have compromising pictures of you? and if you think he doesn't, he does.
He more than pictures but I'm not too concerned about it anymore. From what I can tell it's something of a routine, only he doesn't usually spend so long with the sadism. He also isn't aware of all the personal things I know because when I realized he was spewing details while drunk that he didn't remember after the fact, I didn't mention it anymore.