can i just jump straight in with my next question? do you have any idea why you want to murder your daughter? have you ever made any attempts?
When other people piss me off, I usually remain cold and calm, but when my daughter pisses me off, I get very angry. I expect more from her and when she doesn't meet my expectations, I feel like she's disrespecting me.
I'm someone who expects you to jump when I say "jump", and of course, teenagers don't do that. So, my anger is really more about my expectations not being met than it is about the other person.