Do any of you use guilt as a tool and still not feel it?
Recently I used the idea of guilt to enact the final part of my plan to push my "best friend" away from his girlfriend. I say plan, but really it was a poorly orchestrated attempt to get them to break up I have been working on for at least over a year.
Anyway, I slept with my best friends girlfriend in order to get them to break up. I figured that the guilt would push the girl to break up with him or at least admit it to him which would cause him to leave her, but when neither of those things occurred nearly a month after they began (I fucked her on multiple occasions) I decided to (once again) take matters into my own hands by admitting my guilt to this friend. I figured the only way I could get them to break up without getting punched in the face (because saying, "Hey dude, I fucked your girl." is not how you avoid conflict and I'm not partial to violence.) would be playing the guilt card and telling my freind. It went PERFECTLY. He responded the way I expected he would and broke up with her. I did this all without really caring about my friend or the girl (whom I was kind of leading on) all I cared about was that they were broken up in the end. I have no qualms or regrets about this.
Do any of you have similar experiences, or ideas on this situation. I can broaden the context much more upon request.