Some of us already know about these things. However, any additional detail might be useful in any given moment.
You never know, right??? haha...
In my last entry i talked about weakness. Where it comes from and how to hide it if it can't be disposed of. This entry is more along the lines of what a weakness is, and how to expose it. sorry if the font seems large. I cannot fix it on my phone.
Generally a weakness has two properties. It is either physical, or mental. Each is treated differently as they are completely separate. Think of it I'm terms of combat. Physical being desert combat, and mental being ocean combat. You can't attack the
oceain a jeep. And your battle ship can't be sailing along the sand off a desert.
Most all weaknesses have some sort of protection. If there was no barrier dividing the weakness from you, others would have already brought the individual down to the point where they are entirely weak. Getting through the protection takes creativity, but i won't cover that in this post.
Physical weakness deals with things in a physical tangible manner. A woman's weakness could be her looks, the makeup her protection, or even a diet. Maybe it is a mother's child. If it is soothing somebody takes pride in, like their job, house, or things of that nature. An attack on those fonts can be successful. There may be little too no leverage in some of these things, but they can also break a person down completely.
The next front is the mental weakness. Things like intelligence, emotional control, perception, beliefs, and values can ask be pitted against a person. This is the most effective font to attack because they feel the mind is a safe place. These are the strings that you harp
on as frequently and as dangerously as possible. You can make a person into a puppet if you can bend them the right way.
Exposing weakness is a careful process. You don't want to make the individual no longer want to talk to you, or even worse, find a weakness of yours. So everything must be done in a precise order. here are some points on how to go about finding a
weakness.
1) time:
It's simple enough really, the longer tippy know a person, the better chance of discovering a weakness you have. Examining the person under the view of a microscope will bring out most every characteristic of the individual.
2) intuition:
Many weaknesses are common and shared among individuals. Another person may even share the same weakness as you. Simple guesswork and stereotyping can lad to a quick find. Especially if you don't have time to form a long relationship with the person.
3) collecting:
This is my preferred method of exposing. If you remember in my previous post i mentioned the 1 2 10 rule. For every one word you say, let the others say 10. Asking questions is a great way to go about this. People will willingly comply as they love to talk about themselves.
This is all i have to say regarding this post. Let me know what you think.
"People will willingly comply as they love to talk about themselves."
Ask the right questions through targetted tangents, and this can really guide some people to say things they really didn't mean to, simply from the energy of the moment. Follow their admissions with ones of your own that are ones you can live with people knowing, and they'll just keep talking about them.
It's so much fun.