I want to dominate someone.
So a certain amount of forethought went into this. You would have had to stash the chain under your pillow beforehand, right? And he expected to be dominated, so it was- on some level- a "scene". He also said he was up to anything.
Sounds to me like he totally over-reacted.
Again, it is important to negotiate boundaries beforehand. (I don't actually do this, but I really don't have to. For those who don't know each other very well, it is absolutely critical.)
It was thought out a couple hours beforw he came over. I assure you though... looking back on it, he was not over reacting. It wasn't the chain he reacted to. I had his face turning colors from lack of oxygen. And I didn't let up when he tried to get me off him. I'm sure the fact that my face was beaming didn't help. lol
I am 5' 5". I weigh 135 lbs, and my legs are almost solid muscle. I was also trained by my father from the time I was 6 until 13, Army style. You don't know the first thing about me, Space. You've just made a bunch of stories up in your head. Stories to comfort yourself with because you're the midget. Perhaps not in height, but in all other ways. I know you want badly to believe I'm some frail bird that you could easily pick off, yeah? Your need to believe that says so much more about you than me.