Sociopath Community

People who rely on labels solely, should be labeled as labelists themselves.

Even more so, I would recommend permanent institutionalization for them.

 http://www.psychopathysociety.org/images/hare%20commentary%20on%20ronson%20april%2017%202012.pdf

 And a man posts a rebuttle to defend the thing that he stands for... not very surprising...

 so which one of your older siblings/parents do you suspect to have been a psychopath?

I've never really considered anyone else in my family to be sociopathic... though my oldest brother could probably qualify. and a cousin who grew up more like a brother that also could have qualified.

 what was your oldest brother like? did you have both parents in the picture?

Older brother was extroverted, very smart but under achieving, had a very dominating personality, highly prone to agression, protective of family but also quite bullyish (to toughen you up).  We both had fathers out of the picture though at 2 my mother married a guy that did more than a great job filling the father figure position (even if quite distant emotionally) but my brother grew up most of his life without a father figure... hes about 16 years older than myself. I was quite an accident (all my siblings older than me).

 that sounds just like my older sister, and explains why you seem to have a romanticised idea of sociopathy. who told you that you were an accident?

 You were an accident and not a surprise.