So it turns out I think I’m bi-
*hides behind a couch while people throw tomatoes at me*
So it turns out I think I’m bi-
*hides behind a couch while people throw tomatoes at me*
What do you have against being bisexual anyway?
So it turns out I think I’m bi-
*hides behind a couch while people throw tomatoes at me*
What do you have against being bisexual anyway?
I don't have anything against it
it's just been a meandering of self discovery along a path that required a long period of time and a sequence of events in a specific order for me to be able to come to this conclusion
basically it was a journey but
at the end of it I realize I do have the capacity to be straight though I do lean extremely heavily gay a lot of the time???
I wasn't able to really see that until meeting the right person but yeah my bf for real stole my heart soooooo
oddly enough, it *can* happen but it's just more rare.
and I still don't sexualize men in the same way most women do.... but I think my bf likes that because he's tired of people who love him for his looks.
I'm not attracted to him for those reasons, it's about something much deeper than that. So he enjoys the fact I'm not really "like that"
Like I'm never going to be like "oh look at that dudes ass" or abs or like "omg he's so hawt"
I think people are beautiful sometimes but it's about radiance and like, other qualities I find attractive that are hard to explain lol
I just... have never been about... looks. and I don't just sit there going "hm, think I want some dick today."
that never happens. but, if I am in love with someone with my whole spirit body mind heart soul everything like, we together are in love, for real for real.
then it's a different story.
so that's pretty much the definition of bi-romantic ;)
if I hadn't met Taber then I wouldn't of thought this honestly.
it's a special case scenario that I get in a relationship with a guy.
I;m not really looking for it or desiring it, I don't feel anything missing when I'm not in one with a guy, but if the *right one* presents itself to me, the connection pops off and it's just, it is what it is you feel me.
but im not like "omg wish I had a boyfriend" idk
I'm not *that* level of straight
I just have the capacity to love human beings. basically. and that's all it's about for me.
though I think women are pretty or whatever, it's about love in that area for me too like. not as desirable if I'm in literal undeniable love with the person u are and we have a genuine like deep meaningful connection.